gomariners51
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the weather is starting to get nice where im at, what are you guys favorite things to do/dates with a girl?
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
What are you favorite date/things to do with a girl
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Go karts and alcohol.
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
Ice skating and going to the zoo.
If you are anywhere with fresh water springs or other diving hotspots with clear water, go snorkling. It is cheap, easy, and a lot of fun. Chances are she has never been before.
The shooting range is always a good afternoon activity too. Most girls haven't shot a gun before and would love to learn. For some reason it gives you a bit of a mysterious vibe too when she finds out you know how to shoot. I dont know why
The shooting range is always a good afternoon activity too. Most girls haven't shot a gun before and would love to learn. For some reason it gives you a bit of a mysterious vibe too when she finds out you know how to shoot. I dont know why
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
MikeYikes122
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If it's a first date, just go get some coffee somewhere or get some drinks (if you are old enough).
I've been doing that for a long time now, and it's become my pick-and-roll. It's low pressure. It's not time-consuming. And it's pretty easy to build a rapport and talk openly in that situation.
As far as first dates go, don't plan out anything elaborate or try to impress. I had a friend recently spend all day cooking this girl food for their first date. And when it got to be dinner time, she didn't show up and turned her phone off. I didn't have the heart to tell him this, but doing something like he did is a sure-fire way to get a flake.
If you're talking second or third date kind of activities, comedy clubs are always fun if you have one in your area. I don't know what it is, but it always seems to help build a rapport. It's probably all the laughter and the jokes.
I've been doing that for a long time now, and it's become my pick-and-roll. It's low pressure. It's not time-consuming. And it's pretty easy to build a rapport and talk openly in that situation.
As far as first dates go, don't plan out anything elaborate or try to impress. I had a friend recently spend all day cooking this girl food for their first date. And when it got to be dinner time, she didn't show up and turned her phone off. I didn't have the heart to tell him this, but doing something like he did is a sure-fire way to get a flake.
If you're talking second or third date kind of activities, comedy clubs are always fun if you have one in your area. I don't know what it is, but it always seems to help build a rapport. It's probably all the laughter and the jokes.
BeyondCharm
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I have season tickets to sporting events that I actually enjoy going to. That gives me a consistent lineup of activities and the events are action packed and entertaining and leave a great impression.
I usually do coffee for first dates and I always do something after coffee if I'm feelin her and want to spend more time. I don't like to spend the entire time talking because it can seem too much like an interview so I like to mix action/talk/banter up.
I like going on drives and hikes and I highly recommend learning some good "lookout spots" and scenic drives where you can drive and park and look at a nice view.
Driving to parks/coastal trails and then walking around is a good one.
As long as you lead confidently, you can do almost anything.
You can go tour art galleries together.
BUT... the absolute best first-date is to take her to run errands and chores with you
I usually do coffee for first dates and I always do something after coffee if I'm feelin her and want to spend more time. I don't like to spend the entire time talking because it can seem too much like an interview so I like to mix action/talk/banter up.
I like going on drives and hikes and I highly recommend learning some good "lookout spots" and scenic drives where you can drive and park and look at a nice view.
Driving to parks/coastal trails and then walking around is a good one.
As long as you lead confidently, you can do almost anything.
You can go tour art galleries together.
BUT... the absolute best first-date is to take her to run errands and chores with you
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.