gomariners51
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the weather is starting to get nice where im at, what are you guys favorite things to do/dates with a girl?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What are you favorite date/things to do with a girl
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Go karts and alcohol.
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
Ice skating and going to the zoo.
If you are anywhere with fresh water springs or other diving hotspots with clear water, go snorkling. It is cheap, easy, and a lot of fun. Chances are she has never been before.
The shooting range is always a good afternoon activity too. Most girls haven't shot a gun before and would love to learn. For some reason it gives you a bit of a mysterious vibe too when she finds out you know how to shoot. I dont know why
The shooting range is always a good afternoon activity too. Most girls haven't shot a gun before and would love to learn. For some reason it gives you a bit of a mysterious vibe too when she finds out you know how to shoot. I dont know why
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
MikeYikes122
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If it's a first date, just go get some coffee somewhere or get some drinks (if you are old enough).
I've been doing that for a long time now, and it's become my pick-and-roll. It's low pressure. It's not time-consuming. And it's pretty easy to build a rapport and talk openly in that situation.
As far as first dates go, don't plan out anything elaborate or try to impress. I had a friend recently spend all day cooking this girl food for their first date. And when it got to be dinner time, she didn't show up and turned her phone off. I didn't have the heart to tell him this, but doing something like he did is a sure-fire way to get a flake.
If you're talking second or third date kind of activities, comedy clubs are always fun if you have one in your area. I don't know what it is, but it always seems to help build a rapport. It's probably all the laughter and the jokes.
I've been doing that for a long time now, and it's become my pick-and-roll. It's low pressure. It's not time-consuming. And it's pretty easy to build a rapport and talk openly in that situation.
As far as first dates go, don't plan out anything elaborate or try to impress. I had a friend recently spend all day cooking this girl food for their first date. And when it got to be dinner time, she didn't show up and turned her phone off. I didn't have the heart to tell him this, but doing something like he did is a sure-fire way to get a flake.
If you're talking second or third date kind of activities, comedy clubs are always fun if you have one in your area. I don't know what it is, but it always seems to help build a rapport. It's probably all the laughter and the jokes.
BeyondCharm
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I have season tickets to sporting events that I actually enjoy going to. That gives me a consistent lineup of activities and the events are action packed and entertaining and leave a great impression.
I usually do coffee for first dates and I always do something after coffee if I'm feelin her and want to spend more time. I don't like to spend the entire time talking because it can seem too much like an interview so I like to mix action/talk/banter up.
I like going on drives and hikes and I highly recommend learning some good "lookout spots" and scenic drives where you can drive and park and look at a nice view.
Driving to parks/coastal trails and then walking around is a good one.
As long as you lead confidently, you can do almost anything.
You can go tour art galleries together.
BUT... the absolute best first-date is to take her to run errands and chores with you
I usually do coffee for first dates and I always do something after coffee if I'm feelin her and want to spend more time. I don't like to spend the entire time talking because it can seem too much like an interview so I like to mix action/talk/banter up.
I like going on drives and hikes and I highly recommend learning some good "lookout spots" and scenic drives where you can drive and park and look at a nice view.
Driving to parks/coastal trails and then walking around is a good one.
As long as you lead confidently, you can do almost anything.
You can go tour art galleries together.
BUT... the absolute best first-date is to take her to run errands and chores with you
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.