Naughty Ninja
Banned
That's some deep ish right there. Really gives me something to think about. Thanks!TheLoner said:
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
What are you doing this weekend?
- Thread starter TheLoner
- Start date
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
There's a fine line between loners who are comfortable in their own skin who don't need validation from other people to have a good time and loners who cry woe is me everywhere they go. Be the former.TheLoner said:
starfishandcoffee
Don Juan
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I work full time and go to school slightly over half time (soon to be full time).
I somehow manage to shoehorn getting dates into all of this. I work weekends, though, so I might just go poon hunting with my roommate.
I somehow manage to shoehorn getting dates into all of this. I work weekends, though, so I might just go poon hunting with my roommate.
sageproduct
Banned
Hey guys when are we getting dis party started!!!!!!!!!!?????
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I tried to bring "Alexander" and "Kim" from my soccer team, they told me "they might show up" and then texted me "Hey I can't make it, see you in practice".sageproduct said:
So, at least they acknowledged my pathetic existence,
but I will have to cancel.
It is Friday Night!!! And I am all by myself. Just like every other Friday Night
sageproduct
Banned
Hey Loner,
Saturday Night and I am sitting here by myself.
Why don't you come over and have some apple cider with me
Bring your Wii and we can play some Mario Party
Saturday Night and I am sitting here by myself.
Why don't you come over and have some apple cider with me
Bring your Wii and we can play some Mario Party
JohnChops
Master Don Juan
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Hang yourself and then post a video on youtube so you'll be popular. I say party at the LONERRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRZTheLoner said:Yup,
Sitting here all by myself, on a Friday Night.
While everyone else is having fun
Masculinity
Master Don Juan
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Homework, writing papers, but also find time to go out with my buddy and crash parties. At the parties (or while out), we come accross HB's. When we come across Hb's, we approach them. When we approach them...see where this is going? Haha!
-R
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
to rejection then sadness then more rejection then lonerism and eventually to foreveraloneness:nervous:Robyn923b said:
Until about two hours ago, I wasn't even aware that it was the weekend. Just lucky I hooked up last night or else I might be . . . The Loner too.
Let's see. Stinko De Mayo and the K-Y Derby are coming up. I wonder if The Loner has major plans to buy friends for those events?
Let's see. Stinko De Mayo and the K-Y Derby are coming up. I wonder if The Loner has major plans to buy friends for those events?