Naughty Ninja
Banned
That's some deep ish right there. Really gives me something to think about. Thanks!TheLoner said:
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
What are you doing this weekend?
- Thread starter TheLoner
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
There's a fine line between loners who are comfortable in their own skin who don't need validation from other people to have a good time and loners who cry woe is me everywhere they go. Be the former.TheLoner said:
starfishandcoffee
Don Juan
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I work full time and go to school slightly over half time (soon to be full time).
I somehow manage to shoehorn getting dates into all of this. I work weekends, though, so I might just go poon hunting with my roommate.
I somehow manage to shoehorn getting dates into all of this. I work weekends, though, so I might just go poon hunting with my roommate.
sageproduct
Banned
Hey guys when are we getting dis party started!!!!!!!!!!?????
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
I tried to bring "Alexander" and "Kim" from my soccer team, they told me "they might show up" and then texted me "Hey I can't make it, see you in practice".sageproduct said:
So, at least they acknowledged my pathetic existence,
but I will have to cancel.
It is Friday Night!!! And I am all by myself. Just like every other Friday Night
sageproduct
Banned
Hey Loner,
Saturday Night and I am sitting here by myself.
Why don't you come over and have some apple cider with me
Bring your Wii and we can play some Mario Party
Saturday Night and I am sitting here by myself.
Why don't you come over and have some apple cider with me
Bring your Wii and we can play some Mario Party
JohnChops
Master Don Juan
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Hang yourself and then post a video on youtube so you'll be popular. I say party at the LONERRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRZTheLoner said:Yup,
Sitting here all by myself, on a Friday Night.
While everyone else is having fun
Masculinity
Master Don Juan
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Homework, writing papers, but also find time to go out with my buddy and crash parties. At the parties (or while out), we come accross HB's. When we come across Hb's, we approach them. When we approach them...see where this is going? Haha!
-R
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
to rejection then sadness then more rejection then lonerism and eventually to foreveraloneness:nervous:Robyn923b said:
Until about two hours ago, I wasn't even aware that it was the weekend. Just lucky I hooked up last night or else I might be . . . The Loner too.
Let's see. Stinko De Mayo and the K-Y Derby are coming up. I wonder if The Loner has major plans to buy friends for those events?
Let's see. Stinko De Mayo and the K-Y Derby are coming up. I wonder if The Loner has major plans to buy friends for those events?