"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What are the signs my shy girl is (falling) in love with me?

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She’s not a really expressive girl. She doesn’t outright reject me when I make advances, but she rarely makes any moves in public or in private.

It honestly doesn’t bother me, it’s the way she is.

For the last 2-3 weeks she’s been staying at mine because the campsite she was staying at was destroyed by a freak storm.

I work full time (7 am to 11 pm) every day, so we haven’t gone out together much, but I’ve made the time.

She cooks and cleans the house (she goes out of her way), which is really nice of her, and I do her washing.

I really, really like her, and, as I say, I’m falling for her, but it’s quite hard to tell whether she feels the same.

I could ask her, or even tell her,, but I feel that might put her on the spot.


What are the signs to look out for?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Stop thiniing like a feminine guy before you ruin it.
 
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One thing you'll learn in life is shy girls aren't as shy as you think they are.
The most obvious sign is how they dress and appear just for you.
Some of the most reserved looking chicks can be hiding a sexual deviant inside.
 
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When she asks to be the mother of your children, you could venture to say, she is in love with you.

Until then, meet other women.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Guys should not need validation from women. This is what i mean by acting feminine. Women need to know how guys feel about them. Guya dont need to know that stuff. We go about our business and the woman tags along.
 
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marmel75 said:
Guys should not need validation from women. This is what i mean by acting feminine. Women need to know how guys feel about them. Guya dont need to know that stuff. We go about our business and the woman tags along.
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what you do is assume the woman is interested. Anything else is trash - you have the thought, you discard it immediately.
 
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