"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What are the positives from this situation?

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sasha89

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hey

There's this girl at school i've been talking to for a few months. Its been up and down with her, but it finally was going good and I was gonna ask her out finally this week. I've been away for a few days and she got a bf.

Its my fault for waiting so freaking long to ask her out, but its too late now.

What are the positives out of this?

-dont have to think about her anymore
-move on
-opportunity for better girls :woo:

its just really annoying because I know she liked me a lot for a while, but I was too F*ing ***** to make a move.

TIP to everyone reading this, if you think a girl digs you; Ask her out ASAP! Do not delay before things get akward or worse yet, friends zone!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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blinkwatt

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High schoolers,you guys kill me!:D Ok kidding aside since I graduated last year from high school,you did the right thing. You took the good from this and learned,you are on the right track. Remember "you never fail,only learn lessons".
 
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yea thats what happened with the girl im seeing right now :p i just backed off waited till they split then re initiated my sexyness
 
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Skilla_Staz

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I agree that 'backing off' is a good idea, however, by that I mean tkaing your game, and knocking it down a notch. Just a notch. Nothing more. This shows her that you're not scared off by the boyfriend, and that you're going to do what you do.
 
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