"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What are the positives from this situation?

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sasha89

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hey

There's this girl at school i've been talking to for a few months. Its been up and down with her, but it finally was going good and I was gonna ask her out finally this week. I've been away for a few days and she got a bf.

Its my fault for waiting so freaking long to ask her out, but its too late now.

What are the positives out of this?

-dont have to think about her anymore
-move on
-opportunity for better girls :woo:

its just really annoying because I know she liked me a lot for a while, but I was too F*ing ***** to make a move.

TIP to everyone reading this, if you think a girl digs you; Ask her out ASAP! Do not delay before things get akward or worse yet, friends zone!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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blinkwatt

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High schoolers,you guys kill me!:D Ok kidding aside since I graduated last year from high school,you did the right thing. You took the good from this and learned,you are on the right track. Remember "you never fail,only learn lessons".
 
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yea thats what happened with the girl im seeing right now :p i just backed off waited till they split then re initiated my sexyness
 
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I agree that 'backing off' is a good idea, however, by that I mean tkaing your game, and knocking it down a notch. Just a notch. Nothing more. This shows her that you're not scared off by the boyfriend, and that you're going to do what you do.
 
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