"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What are the positives from this situation?

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sasha89

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hey

There's this girl at school i've been talking to for a few months. Its been up and down with her, but it finally was going good and I was gonna ask her out finally this week. I've been away for a few days and she got a bf.

Its my fault for waiting so freaking long to ask her out, but its too late now.

What are the positives out of this?

-dont have to think about her anymore
-move on
-opportunity for better girls :woo:

its just really annoying because I know she liked me a lot for a while, but I was too F*ing ***** to make a move.

TIP to everyone reading this, if you think a girl digs you; Ask her out ASAP! Do not delay before things get akward or worse yet, friends zone!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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blinkwatt

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High schoolers,you guys kill me!:D Ok kidding aside since I graduated last year from high school,you did the right thing. You took the good from this and learned,you are on the right track. Remember "you never fail,only learn lessons".
 
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yea thats what happened with the girl im seeing right now :p i just backed off waited till they split then re initiated my sexyness
 
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Skilla_Staz

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I agree that 'backing off' is a good idea, however, by that I mean tkaing your game, and knocking it down a notch. Just a notch. Nothing more. This shows her that you're not scared off by the boyfriend, and that you're going to do what you do.
 
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