"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What are the positives from this situation?

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sasha89

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hey

There's this girl at school i've been talking to for a few months. Its been up and down with her, but it finally was going good and I was gonna ask her out finally this week. I've been away for a few days and she got a bf.

Its my fault for waiting so freaking long to ask her out, but its too late now.

What are the positives out of this?

-dont have to think about her anymore
-move on
-opportunity for better girls :woo:

its just really annoying because I know she liked me a lot for a while, but I was too F*ing ***** to make a move.

TIP to everyone reading this, if you think a girl digs you; Ask her out ASAP! Do not delay before things get akward or worse yet, friends zone!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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blinkwatt

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High schoolers,you guys kill me!:D Ok kidding aside since I graduated last year from high school,you did the right thing. You took the good from this and learned,you are on the right track. Remember "you never fail,only learn lessons".
 
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yea thats what happened with the girl im seeing right now :p i just backed off waited till they split then re initiated my sexyness
 
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Skilla_Staz

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I agree that 'backing off' is a good idea, however, by that I mean tkaing your game, and knocking it down a notch. Just a notch. Nothing more. This shows her that you're not scared off by the boyfriend, and that you're going to do what you do.
 
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