"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What are the odds I can develop a Friends with Benefit relationship with this Chick

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ericktorres68

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Well theres this girl in literally all my classes. Its our junior year in HS btw. Me and her really get along and there has been times when people think theres something going on past a friendship with us. However this girl gets along with everybody and can be a flirt. Shes really nice and sexy for that matter lol.

Recently on FB she posted as her status "like" and il onbox you what I truly feel about you. I seen what she told other people and she was preety honest even when it was bad things lol. She iboxed me saying she missed me, "its fun messing with you in class", "I am a bit attracted to you not like but attracted yourea sweeatheart tho :3." Whoa i didnt see that one coming! I replied casually responding to all her comments and ended up telling her I was attracted to her too not like but attracted lol. She replied saying "i guess were just 2 attractive people ;)".

I just responded "haha diddo " nd the conversation ended. However when class starts again how do you think I should approach this situation. My objective is stated in the title but i would like a genuinely nice relationship with the girl too. Im fine with either one haha.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Sounds like she's keeping you on a backburner. Waiting around for whenever she's ready (never). Put yourself on the front for her, and quick.
 
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Make a move. Fast. Ask her somewhere private and go for the kiss. Use momemtum, ignore your fear because she SAID she wants you. Go for it.

Play by play:
You: hey, come over here a second.
Her: uhhhh.
You: hey. Hey. :)
Her: (comes over.)
You: (start walking somewhere private.) NoRmal conversation! Weather.
You: kiss.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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