"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

What are the odds I can develop a Friends with Benefit relationship with this Chick

E

ericktorres68

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 26, 2011
Messages
12
Reaction score
0
Well theres this girl in literally all my classes. Its our junior year in HS btw. Me and her really get along and there has been times when people think theres something going on past a friendship with us. However this girl gets along with everybody and can be a flirt. Shes really nice and sexy for that matter lol.

Recently on FB she posted as her status "like" and il onbox you what I truly feel about you. I seen what she told other people and she was preety honest even when it was bad things lol. She iboxed me saying she missed me, "its fun messing with you in class", "I am a bit attracted to you not like but attracted yourea sweeatheart tho :3." Whoa i didnt see that one coming! I replied casually responding to all her comments and ended up telling her I was attracted to her too not like but attracted lol. She replied saying "i guess were just 2 attractive people ;)".

I just responded "haha diddo " nd the conversation ended. However when class starts again how do you think I should approach this situation. My objective is stated in the title but i would like a genuinely nice relationship with the girl too. Im fine with either one haha.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

L

LearningSlowly

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 8, 2011
Messages
1,206
Reaction score
12
Location
Atlanta
Sounds like she's keeping you on a backburner. Waiting around for whenever she's ready (never). Put yourself on the front for her, and quick.
 
J

Jack Wealthy

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 6, 2010
Messages
819
Reaction score
10
Make a move. Fast. Ask her somewhere private and go for the kiss. Use momemtum, ignore your fear because she SAID she wants you. Go for it.

Play by play:
You: hey, come over here a second.
Her: uhhhh.
You: hey. Hey. :)
Her: (comes over.)
You: (start walking somewhere private.) NoRmal conversation! Weather.
You: kiss.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top