Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What are the odds I can develop a Friends with Benefit relationship with this Chick

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ericktorres68

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Well theres this girl in literally all my classes. Its our junior year in HS btw. Me and her really get along and there has been times when people think theres something going on past a friendship with us. However this girl gets along with everybody and can be a flirt. Shes really nice and sexy for that matter lol.

Recently on FB she posted as her status "like" and il onbox you what I truly feel about you. I seen what she told other people and she was preety honest even when it was bad things lol. She iboxed me saying she missed me, "its fun messing with you in class", "I am a bit attracted to you not like but attracted yourea sweeatheart tho :3." Whoa i didnt see that one coming! I replied casually responding to all her comments and ended up telling her I was attracted to her too not like but attracted lol. She replied saying "i guess were just 2 attractive people ;)".

I just responded "haha diddo " nd the conversation ended. However when class starts again how do you think I should approach this situation. My objective is stated in the title but i would like a genuinely nice relationship with the girl too. Im fine with either one haha.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sounds like she's keeping you on a backburner. Waiting around for whenever she's ready (never). Put yourself on the front for her, and quick.
 
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Jack Wealthy

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Make a move. Fast. Ask her somewhere private and go for the kiss. Use momemtum, ignore your fear because she SAID she wants you. Go for it.

Play by play:
You: hey, come over here a second.
Her: uhhhh.
You: hey. Hey. :)
Her: (comes over.)
You: (start walking somewhere private.) NoRmal conversation! Weather.
You: kiss.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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