"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What are the odds I can develop a Friends with Benefit relationship with this Chick

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ericktorres68

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Well theres this girl in literally all my classes. Its our junior year in HS btw. Me and her really get along and there has been times when people think theres something going on past a friendship with us. However this girl gets along with everybody and can be a flirt. Shes really nice and sexy for that matter lol.

Recently on FB she posted as her status "like" and il onbox you what I truly feel about you. I seen what she told other people and she was preety honest even when it was bad things lol. She iboxed me saying she missed me, "its fun messing with you in class", "I am a bit attracted to you not like but attracted yourea sweeatheart tho :3." Whoa i didnt see that one coming! I replied casually responding to all her comments and ended up telling her I was attracted to her too not like but attracted lol. She replied saying "i guess were just 2 attractive people ;)".

I just responded "haha diddo " nd the conversation ended. However when class starts again how do you think I should approach this situation. My objective is stated in the title but i would like a genuinely nice relationship with the girl too. Im fine with either one haha.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sounds like she's keeping you on a backburner. Waiting around for whenever she's ready (never). Put yourself on the front for her, and quick.
 
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Make a move. Fast. Ask her somewhere private and go for the kiss. Use momemtum, ignore your fear because she SAID she wants you. Go for it.

Play by play:
You: hey, come over here a second.
Her: uhhhh.
You: hey. Hey. :)
Her: (comes over.)
You: (start walking somewhere private.) NoRmal conversation! Weather.
You: kiss.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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