wHAT ARE THE BEST OPEN END QUESTIONS TO ASK A GIRL TO GET HER TO OPEN UP 2 U

[young--j]

JUST GIVE ME SOME EXAMPLES AND SOME IDEAS THANK YOU.

 

[white_hype]

what are your dreams/goals in life?
what do you want to do after high school/college etc?

 

[thejuice]

white, those questions are boring...no offense

Heres something better...

If you had a million dollars, what would you buy?

If you had the power to fly/of invisibility, what would you do?

You get the point? Questions that stimulate her imagination are much better than "what are your goals for the future", blah, blah, blah, boring. You may not be familiar with asking questions but i assure you, most guys ask those questions. So, itll be better for your appeal if you ask questions that arent so common. If you can make up your own rep of questions to ask, youll be figuring her out faster than she realizes

 

[DJmonster]

If she's from a good family, ask her a lot of questions about them. Everyone likes to talk about the ones they are close to.

Don't forget to ask fun and stupid questions too. Sometimes they can lead to interesting conversations. Ask her, who would win in a fight between Mr. Rogers and Barney? Or, whats the deal with handicapped people getting all the close spaces? (pretend to take a stand and hate handicapped people)

 

[carbani]

I learned a lot about psychology. I know how to interpret people's feeling and character basing on their clothes, body language and what they say. This opens people up.

"I've read that people who wear glasses like this want to show how intelligent they are, what do you think about it?"

"So, you wear contacts instead of glasses now? It means..."

"Oh my, nice lipstick, fingertips and a makeup. Do you ..."

A girl dresses in a certain way for a reason. Guess the reason, present it to her and watch her react

 

[NaturallySelected]

If you really want her to open up, you know deep personal stuff then you have to reveal stuff that is personal to you and establish trust. POP PSYCH 101

 

[diplomatic_lies]

A properly-worded WHY will be your friend.

Her: This is a cool place.
Me: Why?
Her: Cuz the music is good, the waiters are nice, and its real comfy
Me: Why?
Her: Well....because.
Me: Why?
Her: Um, are you ok?
Me: Why?

 

[aolsuxs]

A favorite of mine that doesnt come off too chessy, IMO as some o the earlier ones do, "Tell me about the last party you were at?" or "Tell me about the last time you were trashed"

I think some of the earlier ones, What are your dreams etc etc.Might come off a bit strong when first meeting someone.