"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
wHAT ARE THE BEST OPEN END QUESTIONS TO ASK A GIRL TO GET HER TO OPEN UP 2 U
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
white_hype
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what do you want to do after high school/college etc?
thejuice
Master Don Juan
Heres something better...
If you had a million dollars, what would you buy?
If you had the power to fly/of invisibility, what would you do?
You get the point? Questions that stimulate her imagination are much better than "what are your goals for the future", blah, blah, blah, boring. You may not be familiar with asking questions but i assure you, most guys ask those questions. So, itll be better for your appeal if you ask questions that arent so common. If you can make up your own rep of questions to ask, youll be figuring her out faster than she realizes
DJmonster
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Don't forget to ask fun and stupid questions too. Sometimes they can lead to interesting conversations. Ask her, who would win in a fight between Mr. Rogers and Barney? Or, whats the deal with handicapped people getting all the close spaces? (pretend to take a stand and hate handicapped people)
"I've read that people who wear glasses like this want to show how intelligent they are, what do you think about it?"
"So, you wear contacts instead of glasses now? It means..."
"Oh my, nice lipstick, fingertips and a makeup. Do you ..."
A girl dresses in a certain way for a reason. Guess the reason, present it to her and watch her react
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
NaturallySelected
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diplomatic_lies
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Her: This is a cool place.
Me: Why?
Her: Cuz the music is good, the waiters are nice, and its real comfy
Me: Why?
Her: Well....because.
Me: Why?
Her: Um, are you ok?
Me: Why?
I think some of the earlier ones, What are your dreams etc etc.Might come off a bit strong when first meeting someone.