Isn’t that marriage?In my experience, the minute she realizes you care what she thinks about you, you're done. No chance.
how does giving up all your sexual options translate to you caring about what she thinks of you?Isn’t that marriage?
You are signing a document that tells the her, the state, and the world that will give up all your sexual options for the rest of your life to be with her. And if SHE wants out, your life may or may not be destroyed.
Im mentioned before i work with a young man who does this. Im handsy to but this guy is headsy jerky and twitchy. Talks alot and comes off really fem. And lo and behold he has a lot of trouble with young lib gf and her family. Constantly bitzching.I don't think I've heard this one before, lol. I'm pretty animated. But it's more hands than head. I assume sing-songy means sorta light in your loafers?
Most men don't need "more attraction" they need less attraction killers.Attraction killers:
1) Being indecisive
2) Being too emotive (moving the head too much while talking in a sing-songy way)
3) Being withdrawn with your body language (keeping legs together, making yourself "small" when seated)
4) Being overly affectionate (always telling her you love her, overly eager to please)
5) Being socially uncalibrated (overly shy)
6) Dressing with no sense of style (Just a bit of neatness is all that's needed; Nothing over the top). Your clothing speaks volumes about how much or how little you respect yourself.
7) The sense that she has you hook, line and sinker. She should always be wondering about how she stands with you.
8) Worn out shoes. SO important to women. Good shoes cover a multitude of sins.
9) Worth a repeat: Being indecisive. A total attraction killer
10) Being completely out of shape. You don't have to be muscular. Just fit-looking.
Those are ten off the top of my head. It's also a chronicle of my history... things I had to learn to reverse.
Good question. LTR frame is actually a great challenge. Keeping sexual options open and at the same time mono.how does giving up all your sexual options translate to you caring about what she thinks of you?