"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
What are some things that instantly kill attraction?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Snake-eyes
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Isn’t that marriage?
You are signing a document that tells the her, the state, and the world that will give up all your sexual options for the rest of your life to be with her. And if SHE wants out, your life may or may not be destroyed.
Brutal.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I have heard this before too, but I know someone in real life who has bad breath but he gets a lot of girls.
how does giving up all your sexual options translate to you caring about what she thinks of you?
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
1) Being indecisive
2) Being too emotive (moving the head too much while talking in a sing-songy way)
3) Being withdrawn with your body language (keeping legs together, making yourself "small" when seated)
4) Being overly affectionate (always telling her you love her, overly eager to please)
5) Being socially uncalibrated (overly shy)
6) Dressing with no sense of style (Just a bit of neatness is all that's needed; Nothing over the top). Your clothing speaks volumes about how much or how little you respect yourself.
7) The sense that she has you hook, line and sinker. She should always be wondering about how she stands with you.
8) Worn out shoes. SO important to women. Good shoes cover a multitude of sins.
9) Worth a repeat: Being indecisive. A total attraction killer
10) Being completely out of shape. You don't have to be muscular. Just fit-looking.
Those are ten off the top of my head. It's also a chronicle of my history... things I had to learn to reverse.
MillionBillionaire
Master Don Juan
Most men don't need "more attraction" they need less attraction killers.
Smasher got it right.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
MillionBillionaire
Master Don Juan
people are ****ing retards. He stopped.
TLTR... Have social common fvcking sense.