Ok, all you guys out there. What are some good moves a lady can make to take a relationship out of the friendly/flirty zone and into something a little more? And please do not tell me to ask this guy out. I don't think he responds well to overly aggressive girls, so I want to keep it subtle but send him the message that I'm ready to take this a bit further.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
What Are Some Good Transitioning Moves?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Crank_It_Up
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wear a cute low-cut blouse, a nice push-up bra, and bend over while your facing him a lot
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Crank it up indeed 
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
fast_n_furious
Don Juan
as many love doctors would advice you, make a plan. what i would recommend is u, is to make a plan, firstly find out as much about him as you can, like his hobbies, where he goes, people he meets and anything and everything you can, take notes, obsereve everything carefully, and then plan your attitude, now you have more details than ever and you are ready to work, may be to start off with pamper him a bit, give him a little gift or may be two within a gap of 2-3 weeks, ( gifts based on his hobbies and all ), and a few flirty signals would do, when he actually starts to show a little bit of interest in you, its time to take a little bit of risk if you are willing to. its a common sayign that girls are jealous of other girls, but i guess the same goes for guys too, so just when you have given him the signals, and he has come a bit closer to you, its the right time to show him that u r wanted, how about introducing a new guy in the story for a while, talk to him about him, and then just start ignoring your crush a lil bit, for eg. when he calls up, just tell him that u r busy talking to so n so and u will call him back, do call him back but may be on the other day, not immidiately after you finish up with ur fake call. i have seen this working for many girls, and i knew a few who use this succesfully, the thign is there is a slight risk involved here, but trust me , if u think practically u have nothing to loose at all, because even if you arent able to arouse that interest in him, after the first 2 steps, i.e getting closer and moving away, eventually you would still stay in the position where you started from, it wount be difficult at all to be just good friends again, i would certainly go for this if i was u.
but i am sure many would tell u, keep it simple, but then again, its like investing in stock markets, the bigger the risk, the better the returns, but only if u r a smart investor, so temme what u decide, wish you great luck.
cheers
ashish
but i am sure many would tell u, keep it simple, but then again, its like investing in stock markets, the bigger the risk, the better the returns, but only if u r a smart investor, so temme what u decide, wish you great luck.
cheers
ashish