Ok, all you guys out there. What are some good moves a lady can make to take a relationship out of the friendly/flirty zone and into something a little more? And please do not tell me to ask this guy out. I don't think he responds well to overly aggressive girls, so I want to keep it subtle but send him the message that I'm ready to take this a bit further.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
What Are Some Good Transitioning Moves?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Crank_It_Up
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wear a cute low-cut blouse, a nice push-up bra, and bend over while your facing him a lot
Ridingthelightning
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Crank it up indeed 
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
fast_n_furious
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as many love doctors would advice you, make a plan. what i would recommend is u, is to make a plan, firstly find out as much about him as you can, like his hobbies, where he goes, people he meets and anything and everything you can, take notes, obsereve everything carefully, and then plan your attitude, now you have more details than ever and you are ready to work, may be to start off with pamper him a bit, give him a little gift or may be two within a gap of 2-3 weeks, ( gifts based on his hobbies and all ), and a few flirty signals would do, when he actually starts to show a little bit of interest in you, its time to take a little bit of risk if you are willing to. its a common sayign that girls are jealous of other girls, but i guess the same goes for guys too, so just when you have given him the signals, and he has come a bit closer to you, its the right time to show him that u r wanted, how about introducing a new guy in the story for a while, talk to him about him, and then just start ignoring your crush a lil bit, for eg. when he calls up, just tell him that u r busy talking to so n so and u will call him back, do call him back but may be on the other day, not immidiately after you finish up with ur fake call. i have seen this working for many girls, and i knew a few who use this succesfully, the thign is there is a slight risk involved here, but trust me , if u think practically u have nothing to loose at all, because even if you arent able to arouse that interest in him, after the first 2 steps, i.e getting closer and moving away, eventually you would still stay in the position where you started from, it wount be difficult at all to be just good friends again, i would certainly go for this if i was u.
but i am sure many would tell u, keep it simple, but then again, its like investing in stock markets, the bigger the risk, the better the returns, but only if u r a smart investor, so temme what u decide, wish you great luck.
cheers
ashish
but i am sure many would tell u, keep it simple, but then again, its like investing in stock markets, the bigger the risk, the better the returns, but only if u r a smart investor, so temme what u decide, wish you great luck.
cheers
ashish