Ok, all you guys out there. What are some good moves a lady can make to take a relationship out of the friendly/flirty zone and into something a little more? And please do not tell me to ask this guy out. I don't think he responds well to overly aggressive girls, so I want to keep it subtle but send him the message that I'm ready to take this a bit further.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
What Are Some Good Transitioning Moves?
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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wear a cute low-cut blouse, a nice push-up bra, and bend over while your facing him a lot
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Crank it up indeed 
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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as many love doctors would advice you, make a plan. what i would recommend is u, is to make a plan, firstly find out as much about him as you can, like his hobbies, where he goes, people he meets and anything and everything you can, take notes, obsereve everything carefully, and then plan your attitude, now you have more details than ever and you are ready to work, may be to start off with pamper him a bit, give him a little gift or may be two within a gap of 2-3 weeks, ( gifts based on his hobbies and all ), and a few flirty signals would do, when he actually starts to show a little bit of interest in you, its time to take a little bit of risk if you are willing to. its a common sayign that girls are jealous of other girls, but i guess the same goes for guys too, so just when you have given him the signals, and he has come a bit closer to you, its the right time to show him that u r wanted, how about introducing a new guy in the story for a while, talk to him about him, and then just start ignoring your crush a lil bit, for eg. when he calls up, just tell him that u r busy talking to so n so and u will call him back, do call him back but may be on the other day, not immidiately after you finish up with ur fake call. i have seen this working for many girls, and i knew a few who use this succesfully, the thign is there is a slight risk involved here, but trust me , if u think practically u have nothing to loose at all, because even if you arent able to arouse that interest in him, after the first 2 steps, i.e getting closer and moving away, eventually you would still stay in the position where you started from, it wount be difficult at all to be just good friends again, i would certainly go for this if i was u.
but i am sure many would tell u, keep it simple, but then again, its like investing in stock markets, the bigger the risk, the better the returns, but only if u r a smart investor, so temme what u decide, wish you great luck.
cheers
ashish
but i am sure many would tell u, keep it simple, but then again, its like investing in stock markets, the bigger the risk, the better the returns, but only if u r a smart investor, so temme what u decide, wish you great luck.
cheers
ashish