Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I was thinking something along the day at a spa and massage as well. I get to have a good time while also spending time with her.Between_The_Lines said:Girls love surprises, but girls tend to be picky too, so I tend to avoid material things and instead opt for taking her somewhere, day at a spa, massage, wine and dine.
See if you can add your own special touch to it too. I don't know where you live, but by that I mean something like grab a nice bottle of wine, maybe some cheese, and watch the sun go down together at the beach, something like that.El Payaso said:I was thinking something along the day at a spa and massage as well. I get to have a good time while also spending time with her.
Happy ending included?El Payaso said:I was thinking something along the day at a spa and massage as well. I get to have a good time while also spending time with her.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Very interesting. We're in our early 20's.MOTU said:OP, how old are you and gf? Generally, chicks dig creative, personal gifts. I am 44 and for my gf's 40th I got her a gumball machine filled with little chapsticks because she is a Chapstick fiend, like puts it on every 30mins (keeps her lips nice and soft for my c0ck).
She is s huge Tom Petty fan. For Christmas I got her a bracelet made from Tom Petty's guitar strings, where 100% of the revenue went to an animal rescue fund, which is perfect because she is a dog lover.
Neither was overly expensive for a man of my income, but both made her giddy for weeks.
Yes, it takes thought, but it's far better than some expensive tripe.
I agree with this. Never go buy "nice and expensive" unless you are married and have kids together. And don't be sh!tty either. Either get something she'll remember or get nothing. A half @ssed fail (like cheap jewelry, sweater off the clearance rack) doesn't help and may indeed hurt. A funny card or a pic of the two of you is fine if you really don't have the time or money for something else.mangotot said:Whatever you do don't spend too much money on the gift.