"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hey guys,
I've been on a girl for 2-3 weeks now, and I just offered her a large size picture of her that she really enjoyed!
Now she asked me by sms "what do I owe you?"
I'd like to take her on a date, but I can't figure any way out to be ****y & funny on the phone to ask her out...
Could someone give me help?
Thanks!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Get over the ****y an funny - it's great in person, but can't be properly conveyed through a text message. Your best bet is to be direct. "I want to see you now." "I wanna hang out with your lame ass." "What do you do for fun? It should be me." Sh1t like that. Try to not to be a guy they're comfortable around. Chicks love to be friends with guys like that. Be that dude who they're always wondering about. Is he gonna fight somebody or fvck me? Is he gonna fvck that girl or is he gonna fvck me? Those should be the questions she's asking herself. Not if you're the one. Nobody likes to think about the one. Make her feel excited. Hoes love that sh1t.
 
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ditto, although I do ****y funny over text and have never had problems with it, just add stuff like LOL or haha or a wink after you drop a dandy over txt, comes of well in my usage
 
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Hey, here is how it turned out:

H: How much do I ow you?
M: 2 kiwis, 1 mandarin and 5 strawberries
H: Fine for the mandarin and the kiwi, but I keep strawberries for me, I like them too much!
M: Crap, me too... With a little bit of sugar and a lot of see crème!
H: Haha, yeah! But that's nt good for my diet...!
M: what do you expect to loose? A bone? (she's absolutely not fat!)
H: Why not ^^

After a while, I answered that:
Seriously, for this time, a drink will be ok, but this really should not become a habit!

And now I'm waiting for her to answer me.
I hope this wasn't that lame...!
 
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Too much gay not enough cool.

Imagine how much cooler you would be right now if you just replied with 'A drink, this weekend?'.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

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I've no idea...
It's the 1st time I do something like this...!
 
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