"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hey guys,
I've been on a girl for 2-3 weeks now, and I just offered her a large size picture of her that she really enjoyed!
Now she asked me by sms "what do I owe you?"
I'd like to take her on a date, but I can't figure any way out to be ****y & funny on the phone to ask her out...
Could someone give me help?
Thanks!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Get over the ****y an funny - it's great in person, but can't be properly conveyed through a text message. Your best bet is to be direct. "I want to see you now." "I wanna hang out with your lame ass." "What do you do for fun? It should be me." Sh1t like that. Try to not to be a guy they're comfortable around. Chicks love to be friends with guys like that. Be that dude who they're always wondering about. Is he gonna fight somebody or fvck me? Is he gonna fvck that girl or is he gonna fvck me? Those should be the questions she's asking herself. Not if you're the one. Nobody likes to think about the one. Make her feel excited. Hoes love that sh1t.
 

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ditto, although I do ****y funny over text and have never had problems with it, just add stuff like LOL or haha or a wink after you drop a dandy over txt, comes of well in my usage
 

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Hey, here is how it turned out:

H: How much do I ow you?
M: 2 kiwis, 1 mandarin and 5 strawberries
H: Fine for the mandarin and the kiwi, but I keep strawberries for me, I like them too much!
M: Crap, me too... With a little bit of sugar and a lot of see crème!
H: Haha, yeah! But that's nt good for my diet...!
M: what do you expect to loose? A bone? (she's absolutely not fat!)
H: Why not ^^

After a while, I answered that:
Seriously, for this time, a drink will be ok, but this really should not become a habit!

And now I'm waiting for her to answer me.
I hope this wasn't that lame...!
 

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Too much gay not enough cool.

Imagine how much cooler you would be right now if you just replied with 'A drink, this weekend?'.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I've no idea...
It's the 1st time I do something like this...!
 
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