"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What am i doing wrong?

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I'm on vacation right now, so the best way to test my DJ skills i guess :p. But, i tried to dance with girls but it seems that no girl is interested. What am i doing wrong? But I see it's not only with me, but with more guys. Should I speak to the girls instead? But thats hard because the music is loud very often.

Any tips?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Try grabbing their hand and pulling them to dance without asking them? You should try to dance with having fun in your mind first, then release the inner wolf.:D
 
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Use kino?
Eye contact?
Don't know past that, read up on attraction? :p
 
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yeah I use eye contact but even then most girls don't even look longer than 2 seconds.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Trust me, even a little smile can boost your ego from a woman. smiling helps, even if they don't smile, so what, atleast they know ur friendly.
 
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LISTEN UP!!

CLUB = BODY LANGUAGE!! ... Why do you people find that so hard to understand..... If its too loud to talk, then let your body and your actions do the talking! ffs! You see a girl at a club, you look at her, u smile at her, you make eye contact, you walk up to her, ask her to come dance (in a confident alpha male way), if she comes to dance with you, then great, if not, then move on..... once you are dancing with her get close, start touching each other (kino), then kiss close... then get her number, and if you are done wit her, tell her you are going to the bathroom or something, and move on, if you wanna take her home, then stay with her, tell her to come talk to you somewhere more quiet, get to know each other, make out some more (make it passionate, get her really horny) and then ask her to come back to your place. (I am guessing she is also there on holiday and is also looking to have a good time) ... if she isn’t there on holiday, then blah, you have nothing to lose;)

Now GO GET'EM!!!!:trouble:
 
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Re: LISTEN UP!!

Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
CLUB = BODY LANGUAGE!! ... Why do you people find that so hard to understand..... If its too loud to talk, then let your body and your actions do the talking! ffs! You see a girl at a club, you look at her, u smile at her, you make eye contact, you walk up to her, ask her to come dance (in a confident alpha male way), if she comes to dance with you, then great, if not, then move on..... once you are dancing with her get close, start touching each other (kino), then kiss close... then get her number, and if you are done wit her, tell her you are going to the bathroom or something, and move on, if you wanna take her home, then stay with her, tell her to come talk to you somewhere more quiet, get to know each other, make out some more (make it passionate, get her really horny) and then ask her to come back to your place. (I am guessing she is also there on holiday and is also looking to have a good time) ... if she isn’t there on holiday, then blah, you have nothing to lose;)

Now GO GET'EM!!!!:trouble:
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by far the best advice so far..

ignore the earlier stuff..

the only thing i disagree with is the club = body language..

just work your **** talking near the bar etc. and invite them to dance..
failing that, if you are good looking (not great looking) i'm 7/10 and this works for me all the time..
dance, no talking, get a bit of eye contact, smile and put out ur hand she'll take it and u dance with her.
no eye contact? keep your eye out for a girl who looks over at you a couple of times, she likes what she sees if she looks more then once, then eye contact, force it, smile, hand out, dance with her.


but i perfer the talking near the bar approach. flawless.
 
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Originally posted by Heyjose25points
Try grabbing their hand and pulling them to dance without asking them? You should try to dance with having fun in your mind first, then release the inner wolf.:D
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Oh great idea:rolleyes: maybe you can pay his bail when he gets charged with assault? Idiot.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by jprjrjr
Oh great idea:rolleyes: maybe you can pay his bail when he gets charged with assault? Idiot.
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assault charges for trying to dance with a girl??? pretty slim chances. the girl will either dance or brush you off. unless you're an extreme creep. if you're a regular aspiring DJ then i see no harm in this.
 
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