"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'm on vacation right now, so the best way to test my DJ skills i guess :p. But, i tried to dance with girls but it seems that no girl is interested. What am i doing wrong? But I see it's not only with me, but with more guys. Should I speak to the girls instead? But thats hard because the music is loud very often.

Any tips?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Try grabbing their hand and pulling them to dance without asking them? You should try to dance with having fun in your mind first, then release the inner wolf.:D
 
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Use kino?
Eye contact?
Don't know past that, read up on attraction? :p
 
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yeah I use eye contact but even then most girls don't even look longer than 2 seconds.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Trust me, even a little smile can boost your ego from a woman. smiling helps, even if they don't smile, so what, atleast they know ur friendly.
 
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LISTEN UP!!

CLUB = BODY LANGUAGE!! ... Why do you people find that so hard to understand..... If its too loud to talk, then let your body and your actions do the talking! ffs! You see a girl at a club, you look at her, u smile at her, you make eye contact, you walk up to her, ask her to come dance (in a confident alpha male way), if she comes to dance with you, then great, if not, then move on..... once you are dancing with her get close, start touching each other (kino), then kiss close... then get her number, and if you are done wit her, tell her you are going to the bathroom or something, and move on, if you wanna take her home, then stay with her, tell her to come talk to you somewhere more quiet, get to know each other, make out some more (make it passionate, get her really horny) and then ask her to come back to your place. (I am guessing she is also there on holiday and is also looking to have a good time) ... if she isn’t there on holiday, then blah, you have nothing to lose;)

Now GO GET'EM!!!!:trouble:
 
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Re: LISTEN UP!!

Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
CLUB = BODY LANGUAGE!! ... Why do you people find that so hard to understand..... If its too loud to talk, then let your body and your actions do the talking! ffs! You see a girl at a club, you look at her, u smile at her, you make eye contact, you walk up to her, ask her to come dance (in a confident alpha male way), if she comes to dance with you, then great, if not, then move on..... once you are dancing with her get close, start touching each other (kino), then kiss close... then get her number, and if you are done wit her, tell her you are going to the bathroom or something, and move on, if you wanna take her home, then stay with her, tell her to come talk to you somewhere more quiet, get to know each other, make out some more (make it passionate, get her really horny) and then ask her to come back to your place. (I am guessing she is also there on holiday and is also looking to have a good time) ... if she isn’t there on holiday, then blah, you have nothing to lose;)

Now GO GET'EM!!!!:trouble:
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by far the best advice so far..

ignore the earlier stuff..

the only thing i disagree with is the club = body language..

just work your **** talking near the bar etc. and invite them to dance..
failing that, if you are good looking (not great looking) i'm 7/10 and this works for me all the time..
dance, no talking, get a bit of eye contact, smile and put out ur hand she'll take it and u dance with her.
no eye contact? keep your eye out for a girl who looks over at you a couple of times, she likes what she sees if she looks more then once, then eye contact, force it, smile, hand out, dance with her.


but i perfer the talking near the bar approach. flawless.
 
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Originally posted by Heyjose25points
Try grabbing their hand and pulling them to dance without asking them? You should try to dance with having fun in your mind first, then release the inner wolf.:D
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Oh great idea:rolleyes: maybe you can pay his bail when he gets charged with assault? Idiot.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Originally posted by jprjrjr
Oh great idea:rolleyes: maybe you can pay his bail when he gets charged with assault? Idiot.
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assault charges for trying to dance with a girl??? pretty slim chances. the girl will either dance or brush you off. unless you're an extreme creep. if you're a regular aspiring DJ then i see no harm in this.
 
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