What am i doing wrong?

[Levrone]

I'm on vacation right now, so the best way to test my DJ skills i guess . But, i tried to dance with girls but it seems that no girl is interested. What am i doing wrong? But I see it's not only with me, but with more guys. Should I speak to the girls instead? But thats hard because the music is loud very often.

Any tips?

 

[Heyjose25points]

Try grabbing their hand and pulling them to dance without asking them? You should try to dance with having fun in your mind first, then release the inner wolf.

 

[MrS]

Use kino?
Eye contact?
Don't know past that, read up on attraction?

 

[Levrone]

yeah I use eye contact but even then most girls don't even look longer than 2 seconds.

 

[Heyjose25points]

did u smile?

 

[Levrone]

Originally posted by Heyjose25points
did u smile?

euh don't know, but i guess not.

 

[Heyjose25points]

Trust me, even a little smile can boost your ego from a woman. smiling helps, even if they don't smile, so what, atleast they know ur friendly.

 

[Climax]

LISTEN UP!!

CLUB = BODY LANGUAGE!! ... Why do you people find that so hard to understand..... If its too loud to talk, then let your body and your actions do the talking! ffs! You see a girl at a club, you look at her, u smile at her, you make eye contact, you walk up to her, ask her to come dance (in a confident alpha male way), if she comes to dance with you, then great, if not, then move on..... once you are dancing with her get close, start touching each other (kino), then kiss close... then get her number, and if you are done wit her, tell her you are going to the bathroom or something, and move on, if you wanna take her home, then stay with her, tell her to come talk to you somewhere more quiet, get to know each other, make out some more (make it passionate, get her really horny) and then ask her to come back to your place. (I am guessing she is also there on holiday and is also looking to have a good time) ... if she isn’t there on holiday, then blah, you have nothing to lose

Now GO GET'EM!!!!:trouble:

 

[quest]

Re: LISTEN UP!!

Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
CLUB = BODY LANGUAGE!! ... Why do you people find that so hard to understand..... If its too loud to talk, then let your body and your actions do the talking! ffs! You see a girl at a club, you look at her, u smile at her, you make eye contact, you walk up to her, ask her to come dance (in a confident alpha male way), if she comes to dance with you, then great, if not, then move on..... once you are dancing with her get close, start touching each other (kino), then kiss close... then get her number, and if you are done wit her, tell her you are going to the bathroom or something, and move on, if you wanna take her home, then stay with her, tell her to come talk to you somewhere more quiet, get to know each other, make out some more (make it passionate, get her really horny) and then ask her to come back to your place. (I am guessing she is also there on holiday and is also looking to have a good time) ... if she isn’t there on holiday, then blah, you have nothing to lose

Now GO GET'EM!!!!:trouble:

by far the best advice so far..

ignore the earlier stuff..

the only thing i disagree with is the club = body language..

just work your **** talking near the bar etc. and invite them to dance..
failing that, if you are good looking (not great looking) i'm 7/10 and this works for me all the time..
dance, no talking, get a bit of eye contact, smile and put out ur hand she'll take it and u dance with her.
no eye contact? keep your eye out for a girl who looks over at you a couple of times, she likes what she sees if she looks more then once, then eye contact, force it, smile, hand out, dance with her.


but i perfer the talking near the bar approach. flawless.

 

[jprjrjr]

Originally posted by Heyjose25points
Try grabbing their hand and pulling them to dance without asking them? You should try to dance with having fun in your mind first, then release the inner wolf.

Oh great idea maybe you can pay his bail when he gets charged with assault? Idiot.

 

[kiz]

Originally posted by jprjrjr
Oh great idea maybe you can pay his bail when he gets charged with assault? Idiot.

assault charges for trying to dance with a girl??? pretty slim chances. the girl will either dance or brush you off. unless you're an extreme creep. if you're a regular aspiring DJ then i see no harm in this.