hey guys, im a little bit frustrated because i dont know how to start or what to do for in order to have girls approach me or like me.
im 21 years old and fairly attractive (some girls think im cute, others dont i think, none has told me that tough, i guess it depends on the girl) when i was younger in middle school or highschool i was very active with girls and they liked me a lot but now its different.
im confident guy that can always start a converstation or continue one but i think im approaching girls in a weird way. but since im skinny and pretty short that doesnt help me much either
heres what i usually do:
- if i see a cute girl or somebody that i feel is attractive i dont talk to them or pay them any attention, i feel like if they realize that i like them, they'll ignore me and or think that they all that
- i hide my emotions 100%, i dont let her know that im attracted to her, im just afraid that she feels that im not cute and be rejected
- i have very high standards so i usually go for pretty girls or those that i feel aren't out of my league but i still feel like im not there yet so i back down...weird hah?
i dont know man, i've had some bad experiences with girls when i was younger, my first girl that i really like and i was going to ask her out, i was rejected and that's still in my mind, i dont want to be rejected
i really dont have a lot of experience with girls so i dont know how to start or what to do
what can i do?
PS: im hispanic and i could easily get hispanic girls because most of them look at me and think im cute but im not really attract it to them. i like american girls and i dont know how to approach them and i feel like because im latino they might not like me
im 21 years old and fairly attractive (some girls think im cute, others dont i think, none has told me that tough, i guess it depends on the girl) when i was younger in middle school or highschool i was very active with girls and they liked me a lot but now its different.
im confident guy that can always start a converstation or continue one but i think im approaching girls in a weird way. but since im skinny and pretty short that doesnt help me much either
heres what i usually do:
- if i see a cute girl or somebody that i feel is attractive i dont talk to them or pay them any attention, i feel like if they realize that i like them, they'll ignore me and or think that they all that
- i hide my emotions 100%, i dont let her know that im attracted to her, im just afraid that she feels that im not cute and be rejected
- i have very high standards so i usually go for pretty girls or those that i feel aren't out of my league but i still feel like im not there yet so i back down...weird hah?
i dont know man, i've had some bad experiences with girls when i was younger, my first girl that i really like and i was going to ask her out, i was rejected and that's still in my mind, i dont want to be rejected
i really dont have a lot of experience with girls so i dont know how to start or what to do
what can i do?
PS: im hispanic and i could easily get hispanic girls because most of them look at me and think im cute but im not really attract it to them. i like american girls and i dont know how to approach them and i feel like because im latino they might not like me