"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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What am I doing wrong? Help!

Rolo

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hey guys, im a little bit frustrated because i dont know how to start or what to do for in order to have girls approach me or like me.

im 21 years old and fairly attractive (some girls think im cute, others dont i think, none has told me that tough, i guess it depends on the girl) when i was younger in middle school or highschool i was very active with girls and they liked me a lot but now its different.

im confident guy that can always start a converstation or continue one but i think im approaching girls in a weird way. but since im skinny and pretty short that doesnt help me much either
heres what i usually do:

- if i see a cute girl or somebody that i feel is attractive i dont talk to them or pay them any attention, i feel like if they realize that i like them, they'll ignore me and or think that they all that

- i hide my emotions 100%, i dont let her know that im attracted to her, im just afraid that she feels that im not cute and be rejected

- i have very high standards so i usually go for pretty girls or those that i feel aren't out of my league but i still feel like im not there yet so i back down...weird hah?

i dont know man, i've had some bad experiences with girls when i was younger, my first girl that i really like and i was going to ask her out, i was rejected and that's still in my mind, i dont want to be rejected

i really dont have a lot of experience with girls so i dont know how to start or what to do

what can i do?

PS: im hispanic and i could easily get hispanic girls because most of them look at me and think im cute but im not really attract it to them. i like american girls and i dont know how to approach them and i feel like because im latino they might not like me
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ace of Flames

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*sigh* u know, when u read these kinds of posts enough, u start to feel like some program out there types them up and sends them in. they just sound so generic.... and with a generic answer, to the surprise of no one...

girls arent gonna approach you, be the man and inititate the conversation. read the bible, too.

hehe, american girls. in case no one knew, american isnt an ethnicity. its a nationality. i think u mean white, caucasion girls. if so, then im the opposite of you. and dont doubt your chances because you're latino. be proud of who you are.
 

Rolo

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yeah, this has probably been posted several times, sorry about that man.

i know i have to take the inniciative but thats my problem, i cant, i dont know how to, i have no clue where to start or what to say like in a college class if a cute girl sits next to me, how do i talk to her without coming out as a WUSS.

and yeah, by american girls i meant caucasian girls. im very proud of who i am and where i come from, its just that caucasian girls have certain "thoughts" about latinos in my area
 
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