"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What am I doing wrong? Help!

Rolo

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hey guys, im a little bit frustrated because i dont know how to start or what to do for in order to have girls approach me or like me.

im 21 years old and fairly attractive (some girls think im cute, others dont i think, none has told me that tough, i guess it depends on the girl) when i was younger in middle school or highschool i was very active with girls and they liked me a lot but now its different.

im confident guy that can always start a converstation or continue one but i think im approaching girls in a weird way. but since im skinny and pretty short that doesnt help me much either
heres what i usually do:

- if i see a cute girl or somebody that i feel is attractive i dont talk to them or pay them any attention, i feel like if they realize that i like them, they'll ignore me and or think that they all that

- i hide my emotions 100%, i dont let her know that im attracted to her, im just afraid that she feels that im not cute and be rejected

- i have very high standards so i usually go for pretty girls or those that i feel aren't out of my league but i still feel like im not there yet so i back down...weird hah?

i dont know man, i've had some bad experiences with girls when i was younger, my first girl that i really like and i was going to ask her out, i was rejected and that's still in my mind, i dont want to be rejected

i really dont have a lot of experience with girls so i dont know how to start or what to do

what can i do?

PS: im hispanic and i could easily get hispanic girls because most of them look at me and think im cute but im not really attract it to them. i like american girls and i dont know how to approach them and i feel like because im latino they might not like me
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ace of Flames

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*sigh* u know, when u read these kinds of posts enough, u start to feel like some program out there types them up and sends them in. they just sound so generic.... and with a generic answer, to the surprise of no one...

girls arent gonna approach you, be the man and inititate the conversation. read the bible, too.

hehe, american girls. in case no one knew, american isnt an ethnicity. its a nationality. i think u mean white, caucasion girls. if so, then im the opposite of you. and dont doubt your chances because you're latino. be proud of who you are.
 

Rolo

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yeah, this has probably been posted several times, sorry about that man.

i know i have to take the inniciative but thats my problem, i cant, i dont know how to, i have no clue where to start or what to say like in a college class if a cute girl sits next to me, how do i talk to her without coming out as a WUSS.

and yeah, by american girls i meant caucasian girls. im very proud of who i am and where i come from, its just that caucasian girls have certain "thoughts" about latinos in my area
 
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