"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What actress would you date now?

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Amo

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If I were that age: Sandra Bullock, or like San Jose says, Jennifer Aniston.
Closer to my age: Victoria Justice or Selena Gomez

Am I the only one that's not a huge fan of what is nowadays considered to be hot? Like Megan Fox and Scarlett Johannson (sp?) and such. I get the appeal and all, it's just not my taste.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Miley cyrus is also pretty hot.
 
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I don't know any of them enough to want any of them. I'm "picky", and I seriously doubt that any of them would want me. I have to have that, at least, in a serious "acting" sort of way, which I always get from my Filipinas, no problems at all. :) As long as it "seems real" enough to me, that's good enough. At least I aint kidding myself, like many a future divorce' is! :)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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if i had to go with a woman my age or younger it would be felicity jones. i'm exactly tot he day 4 months older than her.
 
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There is young and old, pretty and sexy.

Natalie Portman is pretty. But Lucy Pinder is sexy.


Young I would have to go with girls in last Scream. especially the first one that got wacked in her bedroom

Cougar-John Travoltas wife. Kelly Preston



right now its the brunette chick on bluebloods
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Jennifer Aniston is hot But ill take Whitney Port, man shes smokin hot
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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