"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What actress would you date now?

Amo

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If I were that age: Sandra Bullock, or like San Jose says, Jennifer Aniston.
Closer to my age: Victoria Justice or Selena Gomez

Am I the only one that's not a huge fan of what is nowadays considered to be hot? Like Megan Fox and Scarlett Johannson (sp?) and such. I get the appeal and all, it's just not my taste.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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SamTheHobit

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Miley cyrus is also pretty hot.
 

metoo

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I don't know any of them enough to want any of them. I'm "picky", and I seriously doubt that any of them would want me. I have to have that, at least, in a serious "acting" sort of way, which I always get from my Filipinas, no problems at all. :) As long as it "seems real" enough to me, that's good enough. At least I aint kidding myself, like many a future divorce' is! :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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if i had to go with a woman my age or younger it would be felicity jones. i'm exactly tot he day 4 months older than her.
 
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There is young and old, pretty and sexy.

Natalie Portman is pretty. But Lucy Pinder is sexy.


Young I would have to go with girls in last Scream. especially the first one that got wacked in her bedroom

Cougar-John Travoltas wife. Kelly Preston



right now its the brunette chick on bluebloods
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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In2theGame

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Jennifer Aniston is hot But ill take Whitney Port, man shes smokin hot
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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