"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What actress would you date now?

Amo

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If I were that age: Sandra Bullock, or like San Jose says, Jennifer Aniston.
Closer to my age: Victoria Justice or Selena Gomez

Am I the only one that's not a huge fan of what is nowadays considered to be hot? Like Megan Fox and Scarlett Johannson (sp?) and such. I get the appeal and all, it's just not my taste.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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SamTheHobit

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Miley cyrus is also pretty hot.
 

metoo

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I don't know any of them enough to want any of them. I'm "picky", and I seriously doubt that any of them would want me. I have to have that, at least, in a serious "acting" sort of way, which I always get from my Filipinas, no problems at all. :) As long as it "seems real" enough to me, that's good enough. At least I aint kidding myself, like many a future divorce' is! :)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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backbreaker

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if i had to go with a woman my age or younger it would be felicity jones. i'm exactly tot he day 4 months older than her.
 
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There is young and old, pretty and sexy.

Natalie Portman is pretty. But Lucy Pinder is sexy.


Young I would have to go with girls in last Scream. especially the first one that got wacked in her bedroom

Cougar-John Travoltas wife. Kelly Preston



right now its the brunette chick on bluebloods
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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In2theGame

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Jennifer Aniston is hot But ill take Whitney Port, man shes smokin hot
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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