"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What a woman said

MixMaxster

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Hey guys,

I was looking around on the internet and I found a female author talking about how to "get women" in a book that she wrote. There were some exerpts from the book and mostly ALL of it was essentially DJ type stuff. But the only disagreement they had was with Kino, they said that they can't STAND when guys find excuses to touch them or to just touch them in the way Kino is described.

So why would they agree on almost EVERYTHING everyone else is talking about here EXCEPT for Kino. Why is that the one real thing they have problems with?

I forgot to add that apparently a lot of women just "go with it".

Max
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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thefonz

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i'm not sexist or anything but after all lies i've been told by women i could care less what they have to say to me abouthow to get them........besides, what are you gonna do, keep the physical barriers up until you move in for a kiss, that will never work. You gotta ease em into it....THINK FOR YOURSELF, QUESTION AUTHORITY
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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kino is good, i know why she said it is bad, if the girl is not in to you she will not like it, but if the girl is in to you she will like it, so it also indicates intrest. People like to be touched by people they like.
 

DJDamage

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Its all about the vibe you get. Obviously women are getting touched by different guys all the time, but if you do it confidently and casually while still maintaining a rapport, then its a good thing.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Women generally don't mind kino from guys they are familiar with. With anyone else it feels creepy to them. Why would anyone feel good by being touched by someone that makes them feel uncomfortable?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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