"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
What a fvcking shame
- Thread starter Burroughs
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
HoneyHitter
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Wow, this should make it to the list of required reading. Even if it's just a picture. Young guys rarely realise how bad women can age. This is just too awful!
Scaramouche
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Dear Burroughs,
C'mon Mate,a night with her and a green apple would finish you off LOL!
C'mon Mate,a night with her and a green apple would finish you off LOL!
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Wow, Is that really the same person? Crying shame!
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Hey now! She might could get a role in some sort of lowly porno.
Greasy Pig
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Bokanovsky
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Even in her good pics, she looks like a big girl...look at those massive thighs. Women of her type always become fat as they age.
I lol'd. The other night I went out with a few friends from my alma mater, all of whom are feminists and blue pill recipients (I was too when I was with them in school). We got on the topic of "people who blew up and got fat". I mentioned the importance of women staying in shape post marriage and got a chorus of "Oh wow, how shallow. It's what's on the INSIDE that counts. Wow, what happened to you?!?!Greasy Pig said:
I just replied, "Fat women just aren't attractive to me, I can't help it". The looks on their faces were priceless. It was awesome.
she's not old yet, she got FAT, and when/if she loses the fat, there will be wrinkles. I've had quite a few women in their 40;s, a few in their 50;s who were still perfectly lovely. But they kept themselves fit all their lives. that fat, dudes, that's an insult to their men.
There's something very wrong about the way women get fat these days. Now their getting fat alone is a criminal offence against humanity, but they also become masculine too. They seem to gain fat in places where a fat bloke would, and their faces start to look like The Rock's.zekko said:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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I'd like to vote this thread as the single best I have seen on SS.
The educational benefit of these pics, for a guy with self respect, is priceless.
The educational benefit of these pics, for a guy with self respect, is priceless.
SharinganUser
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Worst case of Too-Hotness disease I've seen in a long time. What is TH disease you ask? It's a disease that infects women that are too hot to have any motivation to workout or eat right. Too-Hotness disease usually progresses slowly with the woman at first just putting on a few pounds and because she's still attractive to most guys, does nothing about it. The diseased will keep their ego safe and keep denying their symptoms until it is too late.
If you know someone who suffers from Too-Hotness disease, do not feed their ego. In fact do not feed them anything and tell them to get their fat a$$ through a gym door.
If you know someone who suffers from Too-Hotness disease, do not feed their ego. In fact do not feed them anything and tell them to get their fat a$$ through a gym door.
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Good job. That deserves a rep if I've ever seen it.origin138 said:
"Inside that counts" Pffft, how the hell are you meant to get to the inside if you can't even make it past the outside. Lefty feel good logic always makes me scratch my head, you should have said. "I'm glad you said that because there's a homeless guy I've made friends with, a few missing teeth and a gammy leg but he really does have a heart of gold, you willing to give it a shot?"
VladPatton
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origin138 said:
I've done that too, and received the same reaction. It's alright to have a fat wife as long as it is someone else's and not yours.
It's like telling your friend it's perfectly fine and dandy to drive his beat up 1986 Corolla while you have a new Lexus. After all, it just gets you from point A to point B, right? LOL
People seldom embrace the truth.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.