"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What a fvcking shame

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Wow, this should make it to the list of required reading. Even if it's just a picture. Young guys rarely realise how bad women can age. This is just too awful!
 

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Dear Burroughs,
C'mon Mate,a night with her and a green apple would finish you off LOL!
 

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Who's the guy on the left?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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That's why you don't go after women over 23. No matter how much older you are than her, in 20 years, you'll still be up for it, but the cow will be out to pasture.
 

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Even in her good pics, she looks like a big girl...look at those massive thighs. Women of her type always become fat as they age.
 

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Bokanovsky said:
look at those massive thighs. .
noticed the same thing, not saying she was ugly in the before pic, but its a tell.. bad things may be coming down the road. lol.
 

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Greasy Pig said:
I lol'd. The other night I went out with a few friends from my alma mater, all of whom are feminists and blue pill recipients (I was too when I was with them in school). We got on the topic of "people who blew up and got fat". I mentioned the importance of women staying in shape post marriage and got a chorus of "Oh wow, how shallow. It's what's on the INSIDE that counts. Wow, what happened to you?!?!

I just replied, "Fat women just aren't attractive to me, I can't help it". The looks on their faces were priceless. It was awesome.
 

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she's not old yet, she got FAT, and when/if she loses the fat, there will be wrinkles. I've had quite a few women in their 40;s, a few in their 50;s who were still perfectly lovely. But they kept themselves fit all their lives. that fat, dudes, that's an insult to their men.
 

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zekko said:
Who's the guy on the left?
There's something very wrong about the way women get fat these days. Now their getting fat alone is a criminal offence against humanity, but they also become masculine too. They seem to gain fat in places where a fat bloke would, and their faces start to look like The Rock's.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'd like to vote this thread as the single best I have seen on SS.

The educational benefit of these pics, for a guy with self respect, is priceless.
 

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Worst case of Too-Hotness disease I've seen in a long time. What is TH disease you ask? It's a disease that infects women that are too hot to have any motivation to workout or eat right. Too-Hotness disease usually progresses slowly with the woman at first just putting on a few pounds and because she's still attractive to most guys, does nothing about it. The diseased will keep their ego safe and keep denying their symptoms until it is too late.

If you know someone who suffers from Too-Hotness disease, do not feed their ego. In fact do not feed them anything and tell them to get their fat a$$ through a gym door.
 

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origin138 said:
I lol'd. The other night I went out with a few friends from my alma mater, all of whom are feminists and blue pill recipients (I was too when I was with them in school). We got on the topic of "people who blew up and got fat". I mentioned the importance of women staying in shape post marriage and got a chorus of "Oh wow, how shallow. It's what's on the INSIDE that counts. Wow, what happened to you?!?!

I just replied, "Fat women just aren't attractive to me, I can't help it". The looks on their faces were priceless. It was awesome.
You should ask them if they've seen the inside of obese people. Even worse than the outside. One look at it would be enough inspiration for you to work out and eat well for the rest of your life.
 

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origin138 said:
I lol'd. The other night I went out with a few friends from my alma mater, all of whom are feminists and blue pill recipients (I was too when I was with them in school). We got on the topic of "people who blew up and got fat". I mentioned the importance of women staying in shape post marriage and got a chorus of "Oh wow, how shallow. It's what's on the INSIDE that counts. Wow, what happened to you?!?!

I just replied, "Fat women just aren't attractive to me, I can't help it". The looks on their faces were priceless. It was awesome.
Good job. That deserves a rep if I've ever seen it.

"Inside that counts" Pffft, how the hell are you meant to get to the inside if you can't even make it past the outside. Lefty feel good logic always makes me scratch my head, you should have said. "I'm glad you said that because there's a homeless guy I've made friends with, a few missing teeth and a gammy leg but he really does have a heart of gold, you willing to give it a shot?"
 

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origin138 said:
I lol'd. The other night I went out with a few friends from my alma mater, all of whom are feminists and blue pill recipients (I was too when I was with them in school). We got on the topic of "people who blew up and got fat". I mentioned the importance of women staying in shape post marriage and got a chorus of "Oh wow, how shallow. It's what's on the INSIDE that counts. Wow, what happened to you?!?!

I just replied, "Fat women just aren't attractive to me, I can't help it". The looks on their faces were priceless. It was awesome.

I've done that too, and received the same reaction. It's alright to have a fat wife as long as it is someone else's and not yours.

It's like telling your friend it's perfectly fine and dandy to drive his beat up 1986 Corolla while you have a new Lexus. After all, it just gets you from point A to point B, right? LOL

People seldom embrace the truth.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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