"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"We're through"

Ripper

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CCKazi007 said:
I nominate this thread for best "SHYT TALKING THREAD OF 2006 AWARD!" :rockon: This is so funny! Well anyways ya I kinda agree with most of the ppl, u should have just told her to have a fun time with her friends and drove home. Why? cuz it shows that you aren't clingy and that you trust her and is confident enough to leave her alone while other guys are around her.
So true. This sh1t is f-uckin hliarious!:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Raikojo17

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if you guys read, she didnt leave him. she just said we're through while she was drunk. then she calls and begs for him back.

i think you handled it nicely though. i would want my girl with me to make me feel better, givin me massages and wat not,lol. but if she cares more about having fun with her friends than you, then i dont think it is a true relationship.

i dont feel u were being all that clingy. like someone said, if my girl was feeling bad, than i wouldnt just leave her and continue goofing off with my friends. that's something a friend would do, not a gf or bf.
 

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wow. This thread rivals some of my angry tirades/e-fights back when I first joined SS! Impressive.
 

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I'm don't even understand all the hate- the only conclusion I can draw is because some of the guys here perceive you to be the threatening alpha male and want to cut you down. Cmon people, haven't you heard the phrase "Arguing on the internet is like winning the special olympics: Even if you win you're still retarded!"

Mr_knowit_all can we get an update? I was just thinking about your situation and regardless if she was drunk her saying "we're through" could very well be a sh!t test to see if you'd supplicate to her. Just curious :)
 

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LIKE FVCKING PRE-SCHOOL

mr_knowit_all: here is a question? would you rather hang out with you sick G/F or your drinking buddies. And don't give me that socialy condisioned answer. Tell the honest truth, which sounds more fun????

You did the right thing....if it was me, i woldn't have insisted that she comes with me....I'd leave her ass there, and maybe next day take my possie to the streep club, just so she can see how it feels.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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oh and there is a chance she made out with someone else that night.....consider the facts;

-she said "we are through"
-went to her slutty friends
-was buzzed
-was mad at you
-very sorry the next day
 
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spider_007 said:
oh and there is a chance she made out with someone else that night.....consider the facts;

-she said "we are through"
-went to her slutty friends
-was buzzed
-was mad at you
-very sorry the next day
you forgot another one: she doesnt respect him
 
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