"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"We're through"

Ripper

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CCKazi007 said:
I nominate this thread for best "SHYT TALKING THREAD OF 2006 AWARD!" :rockon: This is so funny! Well anyways ya I kinda agree with most of the ppl, u should have just told her to have a fun time with her friends and drove home. Why? cuz it shows that you aren't clingy and that you trust her and is confident enough to leave her alone while other guys are around her.
So true. This sh1t is f-uckin hliarious!:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Raikojo17

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if you guys read, she didnt leave him. she just said we're through while she was drunk. then she calls and begs for him back.

i think you handled it nicely though. i would want my girl with me to make me feel better, givin me massages and wat not,lol. but if she cares more about having fun with her friends than you, then i dont think it is a true relationship.

i dont feel u were being all that clingy. like someone said, if my girl was feeling bad, than i wouldnt just leave her and continue goofing off with my friends. that's something a friend would do, not a gf or bf.
 

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wow. This thread rivals some of my angry tirades/e-fights back when I first joined SS! Impressive.
 

ObieJuan

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I'm don't even understand all the hate- the only conclusion I can draw is because some of the guys here perceive you to be the threatening alpha male and want to cut you down. Cmon people, haven't you heard the phrase "Arguing on the internet is like winning the special olympics: Even if you win you're still retarded!"

Mr_knowit_all can we get an update? I was just thinking about your situation and regardless if she was drunk her saying "we're through" could very well be a sh!t test to see if you'd supplicate to her. Just curious :)
 

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LIKE FVCKING PRE-SCHOOL

mr_knowit_all: here is a question? would you rather hang out with you sick G/F or your drinking buddies. And don't give me that socialy condisioned answer. Tell the honest truth, which sounds more fun????

You did the right thing....if it was me, i woldn't have insisted that she comes with me....I'd leave her ass there, and maybe next day take my possie to the streep club, just so she can see how it feels.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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oh and there is a chance she made out with someone else that night.....consider the facts;

-she said "we are through"
-went to her slutty friends
-was buzzed
-was mad at you
-very sorry the next day
 
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spider_007 said:
oh and there is a chance she made out with someone else that night.....consider the facts;

-she said "we are through"
-went to her slutty friends
-was buzzed
-was mad at you
-very sorry the next day
you forgot another one: she doesnt respect him
 
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