"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"We're through"

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CCKazi007 said:
I nominate this thread for best "SHYT TALKING THREAD OF 2006 AWARD!" :rockon: This is so funny! Well anyways ya I kinda agree with most of the ppl, u should have just told her to have a fun time with her friends and drove home. Why? cuz it shows that you aren't clingy and that you trust her and is confident enough to leave her alone while other guys are around her.
So true. This sh1t is f-uckin hliarious!:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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if you guys read, she didnt leave him. she just said we're through while she was drunk. then she calls and begs for him back.

i think you handled it nicely though. i would want my girl with me to make me feel better, givin me massages and wat not,lol. but if she cares more about having fun with her friends than you, then i dont think it is a true relationship.

i dont feel u were being all that clingy. like someone said, if my girl was feeling bad, than i wouldnt just leave her and continue goofing off with my friends. that's something a friend would do, not a gf or bf.
 

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wow. This thread rivals some of my angry tirades/e-fights back when I first joined SS! Impressive.
 

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I'm don't even understand all the hate- the only conclusion I can draw is because some of the guys here perceive you to be the threatening alpha male and want to cut you down. Cmon people, haven't you heard the phrase "Arguing on the internet is like winning the special olympics: Even if you win you're still retarded!"

Mr_knowit_all can we get an update? I was just thinking about your situation and regardless if she was drunk her saying "we're through" could very well be a sh!t test to see if you'd supplicate to her. Just curious :)
 

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LIKE FVCKING PRE-SCHOOL

mr_knowit_all: here is a question? would you rather hang out with you sick G/F or your drinking buddies. And don't give me that socialy condisioned answer. Tell the honest truth, which sounds more fun????

You did the right thing....if it was me, i woldn't have insisted that she comes with me....I'd leave her ass there, and maybe next day take my possie to the streep club, just so she can see how it feels.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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oh and there is a chance she made out with someone else that night.....consider the facts;

-she said "we are through"
-went to her slutty friends
-was buzzed
-was mad at you
-very sorry the next day
 
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spider_007 said:
oh and there is a chance she made out with someone else that night.....consider the facts;

-she said "we are through"
-went to her slutty friends
-was buzzed
-was mad at you
-very sorry the next day
you forgot another one: she doesnt respect him
 
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