"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Were is the best place to meet girls?

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Hey guys i know you all may get in my case but really where is a good place. Hanging out at a collage good to do?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by SpeedRunner
whats a collage? :rolleyes: :p
col·lage (k½-läzh“, k…-) n. 1.a. An artistic composition of materials and objects pasted over a surface, often with unifying lines and color. b. The art of creating such compositions. 2. An assemblage of diverse elements. --col·lage v. col·laged, col·lag·ing, col·lages. --tr. 1. To paste (diverse materials) over a surface, thereby creating an artistic product. --intr. To create such an artistic product. --col·lag“ist n.
example of usage: I have a collage hanging in my living room of photographs taken of all the girls I stalk, spy on and photograph because I don't know where to meet them.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Best way I found...


If you have a little sister, take her to the mall... works wonders

same goes for a cute puppy...
 

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Yeah I met a girl at a collage once. It was a collage that I made too. I jumped inside the collage magically and bam there was the girl of my dreams inside it! :D

Seriously though, I don't know about college. So many girls at my college are just taken or don't want to have anything to do with you. Not sure why it's like this at my college but anyway I think you should try other places first like the mall or other stores.
 

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places where they can sit down and relax, and you can bring them some fun...

bookstores, open bars that have tables on them where they can sit down
 

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What's wrong with meeting women at colleges? I've picked up women there and I don't even go to college.

I like schools to pick up girls, I travel much so speaking with women on the train, in the cafeteria and on the train stations works good. Meeting throgh your friends is a very good way too.

On the other hand, libraries, malls, bars, pubs, etc... those places suck. Bookstores are the worst, I've been there quite a lot and I've never seen any really hot women there.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I find that many girls hang out around the "search" button. :rolleyes:

This has been asked and answered about... a bajillion... times.
 
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