hispanicdude79
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Hey guys i know you all may get in my case but really where is a good place. Hanging out at a collage good to do?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Were is the best place to meet girls?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
I've never met anyone in a collage.
SpeedRunner
Don Juan
whats a collage? 
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
Originally posted by SpeedRunner
whats a collage?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Caldus
Senior Don Juan
Yeah I met a girl at a collage once. It was a collage that I made too. I jumped inside the collage magically and bam there was the girl of my dreams inside it!
Seriously though, I don't know about college. So many girls at my college are just taken or don't want to have anything to do with you. Not sure why it's like this at my college but anyway I think you should try other places first like the mall or other stores.
Seriously though, I don't know about college. So many girls at my college are just taken or don't want to have anything to do with you. Not sure why it's like this at my college but anyway I think you should try other places first like the mall or other stores.
alphawolfx
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places where they can sit down and relax, and you can bring them some fun...
bookstores, open bars that have tables on them where they can sit down
bookstores, open bars that have tables on them where they can sit down
What's wrong with meeting women at colleges? I've picked up women there and I don't even go to college.
I like schools to pick up girls, I travel much so speaking with women on the train, in the cafeteria and on the train stations works good. Meeting throgh your friends is a very good way too.
On the other hand, libraries, malls, bars, pubs, etc... those places suck. Bookstores are the worst, I've been there quite a lot and I've never seen any really hot women there.
I like schools to pick up girls, I travel much so speaking with women on the train, in the cafeteria and on the train stations works good. Meeting throgh your friends is a very good way too.
On the other hand, libraries, malls, bars, pubs, etc... those places suck. Bookstores are the worst, I've been there quite a lot and I've never seen any really hot women there.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
diablo
Master Don Juan
I find that many girls hang out around the "search" button.
This has been asked and answered about... a bajillion... times.
This has been asked and answered about... a bajillion... times.
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