hispanicdude79
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Hey guys i know you all may get in my case but really where is a good place. Hanging out at a collage good to do?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Were is the best place to meet girls?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
I've never met anyone in a collage.
SpeedRunner
Don Juan
whats a collage? 
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
Originally posted by SpeedRunner
whats a collage?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Caldus
Senior Don Juan
Yeah I met a girl at a collage once. It was a collage that I made too. I jumped inside the collage magically and bam there was the girl of my dreams inside it!
Seriously though, I don't know about college. So many girls at my college are just taken or don't want to have anything to do with you. Not sure why it's like this at my college but anyway I think you should try other places first like the mall or other stores.
Seriously though, I don't know about college. So many girls at my college are just taken or don't want to have anything to do with you. Not sure why it's like this at my college but anyway I think you should try other places first like the mall or other stores.
alphawolfx
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places where they can sit down and relax, and you can bring them some fun...
bookstores, open bars that have tables on them where they can sit down
bookstores, open bars that have tables on them where they can sit down
What's wrong with meeting women at colleges? I've picked up women there and I don't even go to college.
I like schools to pick up girls, I travel much so speaking with women on the train, in the cafeteria and on the train stations works good. Meeting throgh your friends is a very good way too.
On the other hand, libraries, malls, bars, pubs, etc... those places suck. Bookstores are the worst, I've been there quite a lot and I've never seen any really hot women there.
I like schools to pick up girls, I travel much so speaking with women on the train, in the cafeteria and on the train stations works good. Meeting throgh your friends is a very good way too.
On the other hand, libraries, malls, bars, pubs, etc... those places suck. Bookstores are the worst, I've been there quite a lot and I've never seen any really hot women there.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
diablo
Master Don Juan
I find that many girls hang out around the "search" button.
This has been asked and answered about... a bajillion... times.
This has been asked and answered about... a bajillion... times.
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