"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Went on a date and failed to make a move, is all hope lost

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She invited me over to her house to literally watch a movie lol. She goes to church every Sunday, doesn't drink, family oriented, owns guns, doesn't cuss, is an accountant, told me previously that she doesn't put out easily, and pretty much that. We watched a movie and cuddled, but I tried to escalate but her dog started barking and we both had to be in bed by 11 because of work. She wants to take me to church with her too lol. Did I screw up and is this **** even worth it? Plus, she seemed to be interested in my actual job which is rare haha.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It doesn't sound to me like you screwed up. She is a church girl, so she is probably looking for someone to marry and have a family with, and the reason she is interested in your job is because she wants to know how good of a provider you will make. Is it worth it? That depends on what you are looking for and whether or not she is the right fit. example if you are looking to get into a serious relationship that possibly leads to marriage and you think that she could possibly fit that criteria, then I would say it is absolutely worth it. If you are just looking to hook up, then I would say it is absolutely not worth it.
 
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Dhoulmagus said:
She invited me over to her house to literally watch a movie lol. She goes to church every Sunday, doesn't drink, family oriented, owns guns, doesn't cuss, is an accountant, told me previously that she doesn't put out easily,
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Lol. When a girl tells you she doesn't put out easy, she puts out easy.

She doesn't drink, smoke, swear, watch R rated movies or listen to rap music. Yet she owns a semi automatic Glock and a M-16 that can murder people? Sounds like an angel.

We watched a movie and cuddled, but I tried to escalate but her dog started barking and we both had to be in bed by 11 because of work. She wants to take me to church with her too lol. Did I screw up and is this **** even worth it? Plus, she seemed to be interested in my actual job which is rare haha.
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Bro she is trying to CONVERT you to love Jesus. If she can do that without giving anything up, she has accomplished her job and the Church will love her.
 
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Dhoulmagus said:
She invited me over to her house to literally watch a movie lol. She goes to church every Sunday, doesn't drink, family oriented, owns guns, doesn't cuss, is an accountant, told me previously that she doesn't put out easily, and pretty much that. We watched a movie and cuddled, but I tried to escalate but her dog started barking and we both had to be in bed by 11 because of work. She wants to take me to church with her too lol. Did I screw up and is this **** even worth it? Plus, she seemed to be interested in my actual job which is rare haha.
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wait is this the same guy that said he banged 5 different chicks all in the same night??

you should have made a move and escalated. The worst that happens is she deflects or kicks you out. Most women don't invite you over to there house for a hangout without a small inkling of what might go down.
 
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wait is this the same guy that said he banged 5 different chicks all in the same night??

you should have made a move and escalated. The worst that happens is she deflects or kicks you out. Most women don't invite you over to there house for a hangout without a small inkling of what might go down.
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It was a cabin party full of drunk sorority girls lol.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Dhoulmagus said:
She invited me over to her house to literally watch a movie lol. She goes to church every Sunday, doesn't drink, family oriented, owns guns, doesn't cuss, is an accountant, told me previously that she doesn't put out easily, and pretty much that. We watched a movie and cuddled, but I tried to escalate but her dog started barking and we both had to be in bed by 11 because of work. She wants to take me to church with her too lol. Did I screw up and is this **** even worth it? Plus, she seemed to be interested in my actual job which is rare haha.
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Thread after thread after thread from you about how it's all but on a plate for you and you can't close the deal.
 
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next time you see or talk to her say this:

you: "you need to stay away from me"
her: "why"
you: "because I am dangerously horny"

your last hope
 
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