"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Went on a date and failed to make a move, is all hope lost

Dhoulmagus

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She invited me over to her house to literally watch a movie lol. She goes to church every Sunday, doesn't drink, family oriented, owns guns, doesn't cuss, is an accountant, told me previously that she doesn't put out easily, and pretty much that. We watched a movie and cuddled, but I tried to escalate but her dog started barking and we both had to be in bed by 11 because of work. She wants to take me to church with her too lol. Did I screw up and is this **** even worth it? Plus, she seemed to be interested in my actual job which is rare haha.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It doesn't sound to me like you screwed up. She is a church girl, so she is probably looking for someone to marry and have a family with, and the reason she is interested in your job is because she wants to know how good of a provider you will make. Is it worth it? That depends on what you are looking for and whether or not she is the right fit. example if you are looking to get into a serious relationship that possibly leads to marriage and you think that she could possibly fit that criteria, then I would say it is absolutely worth it. If you are just looking to hook up, then I would say it is absolutely not worth it.
 

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She invited me over to her house to literally watch a movie lol. She goes to church every Sunday, doesn't drink, family oriented, owns guns, doesn't cuss, is an accountant, told me previously that she doesn't put out easily,
Lol. When a girl tells you she doesn't put out easy, she puts out easy.

She doesn't drink, smoke, swear, watch R rated movies or listen to rap music. Yet she owns a semi automatic Glock and a M-16 that can murder people? Sounds like an angel.

We watched a movie and cuddled, but I tried to escalate but her dog started barking and we both had to be in bed by 11 because of work. She wants to take me to church with her too lol. Did I screw up and is this **** even worth it? Plus, she seemed to be interested in my actual job which is rare haha.
Bro she is trying to CONVERT you to love Jesus. If she can do that without giving anything up, she has accomplished her job and the Church will love her.
 

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She invited me over to her house to literally watch a movie lol. She goes to church every Sunday, doesn't drink, family oriented, owns guns, doesn't cuss, is an accountant, told me previously that she doesn't put out easily, and pretty much that. We watched a movie and cuddled, but I tried to escalate but her dog started barking and we both had to be in bed by 11 because of work. She wants to take me to church with her too lol. Did I screw up and is this **** even worth it? Plus, she seemed to be interested in my actual job which is rare haha.
wait is this the same guy that said he banged 5 different chicks all in the same night??

you should have made a move and escalated. The worst that happens is she deflects or kicks you out. Most women don't invite you over to there house for a hangout without a small inkling of what might go down.
 

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wait is this the same guy that said he banged 5 different chicks all in the same night??

you should have made a move and escalated. The worst that happens is she deflects or kicks you out. Most women don't invite you over to there house for a hangout without a small inkling of what might go down.
It was a cabin party full of drunk sorority girls lol.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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She invited me over to her house to literally watch a movie lol. She goes to church every Sunday, doesn't drink, family oriented, owns guns, doesn't cuss, is an accountant, told me previously that she doesn't put out easily, and pretty much that. We watched a movie and cuddled, but I tried to escalate but her dog started barking and we both had to be in bed by 11 because of work. She wants to take me to church with her too lol. Did I screw up and is this **** even worth it? Plus, she seemed to be interested in my actual job which is rare haha.
Thread after thread after thread from you about how it's all but on a plate for you and you can't close the deal.
 

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next time you see or talk to her say this:

you: "you need to stay away from me"
her: "why"
you: "because I am dangerously horny"

your last hope
 
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