Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Went on a date and failed to make a move, is all hope lost

Dhoulmagus

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She invited me over to her house to literally watch a movie lol. She goes to church every Sunday, doesn't drink, family oriented, owns guns, doesn't cuss, is an accountant, told me previously that she doesn't put out easily, and pretty much that. We watched a movie and cuddled, but I tried to escalate but her dog started barking and we both had to be in bed by 11 because of work. She wants to take me to church with her too lol. Did I screw up and is this **** even worth it? Plus, she seemed to be interested in my actual job which is rare haha.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It doesn't sound to me like you screwed up. She is a church girl, so she is probably looking for someone to marry and have a family with, and the reason she is interested in your job is because she wants to know how good of a provider you will make. Is it worth it? That depends on what you are looking for and whether or not she is the right fit. example if you are looking to get into a serious relationship that possibly leads to marriage and you think that she could possibly fit that criteria, then I would say it is absolutely worth it. If you are just looking to hook up, then I would say it is absolutely not worth it.
 

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She invited me over to her house to literally watch a movie lol. She goes to church every Sunday, doesn't drink, family oriented, owns guns, doesn't cuss, is an accountant, told me previously that she doesn't put out easily,
Lol. When a girl tells you she doesn't put out easy, she puts out easy.

She doesn't drink, smoke, swear, watch R rated movies or listen to rap music. Yet she owns a semi automatic Glock and a M-16 that can murder people? Sounds like an angel.

We watched a movie and cuddled, but I tried to escalate but her dog started barking and we both had to be in bed by 11 because of work. She wants to take me to church with her too lol. Did I screw up and is this **** even worth it? Plus, she seemed to be interested in my actual job which is rare haha.
Bro she is trying to CONVERT you to love Jesus. If she can do that without giving anything up, she has accomplished her job and the Church will love her.
 

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She invited me over to her house to literally watch a movie lol. She goes to church every Sunday, doesn't drink, family oriented, owns guns, doesn't cuss, is an accountant, told me previously that she doesn't put out easily, and pretty much that. We watched a movie and cuddled, but I tried to escalate but her dog started barking and we both had to be in bed by 11 because of work. She wants to take me to church with her too lol. Did I screw up and is this **** even worth it? Plus, she seemed to be interested in my actual job which is rare haha.
wait is this the same guy that said he banged 5 different chicks all in the same night??

you should have made a move and escalated. The worst that happens is she deflects or kicks you out. Most women don't invite you over to there house for a hangout without a small inkling of what might go down.
 

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wait is this the same guy that said he banged 5 different chicks all in the same night??

you should have made a move and escalated. The worst that happens is she deflects or kicks you out. Most women don't invite you over to there house for a hangout without a small inkling of what might go down.
It was a cabin party full of drunk sorority girls lol.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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She invited me over to her house to literally watch a movie lol. She goes to church every Sunday, doesn't drink, family oriented, owns guns, doesn't cuss, is an accountant, told me previously that she doesn't put out easily, and pretty much that. We watched a movie and cuddled, but I tried to escalate but her dog started barking and we both had to be in bed by 11 because of work. She wants to take me to church with her too lol. Did I screw up and is this **** even worth it? Plus, she seemed to be interested in my actual job which is rare haha.
Thread after thread after thread from you about how it's all but on a plate for you and you can't close the deal.
 

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next time you see or talk to her say this:

you: "you need to stay away from me"
her: "why"
you: "because I am dangerously horny"

your last hope
 
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