“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Welp, hang it up. I don't believe that I can binge drink alcohol anymore

Brighty

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I'm 24 and I think my days of binge drinking are over. This is kind of a recent phenomenon that's happened over the past year or so, but I just get *****y anxiety that lasts for 24 hours after I finish a night of drinking, and then feel some residual depression for about another day after that. Anyone else feel the same way at a young age about this? Is this normal?

Not that I really mind, I feel physically like **** the day after I drink anyway and because it takes so much to get me drunk I'm not going to miss the hundreds of empty calories. Hell, I'll probably lose a dozen pounds or so just from abstaining.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Brighty said:
I'm 24 and I think my days of binge drinking are over. This is kind of a recent phenomenon that's happened over the past year or so, but I just get *****y anxiety that lasts for 24 hours after I finish a night of drinking, and then feel some residual depression for about another day after that. Anyone else feel the same way at a young age about this? Is this normal?

Not that I really mind, I feel physically like **** the day after I drink anyway and because it takes so much to get me drunk I'm not going to miss the hundreds of empty calories. Hell, I'll probably lose a dozen pounds or so just from abstaining.
good so you can stop being a fatty. :rolleyes:
 

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VikingKing said:
good so you can stop being a fatty. :rolleyes:
i'll fite u irl m8

Seriously though, losing 12 pounds might get me my six pack back. I'm kind of stoked.
 

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Those three day hangovers are the worst.

I went out last Saturday. I was fine the following day, but didn't feel fully right again until Wednesday.

Back in July 2013, I was getting sick of the hangovers & felt like I wasn't myself when I was drunk so decided to quit alcohol.

I've just started drinking again, once a month. I'm testing it to see how I go.

I think the eighteen month break from alcohol has taught me a lesson.
Maybe now I know not to drink to much & to often.
 

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Good 'ol blighty.
I know what you mean dude. I was a sucker for binge drinking in my early 20s. It was my way of trying to overcome my approach anxiety when socialising. I was low on confidence.

It catches up with you the older you get for sure. I would suffer crippling anxiety for two days after a one night session. Worse if it was a weekender. Would take me about 3 days to recover. It really is not worth it. As I see it, the worst your hangover is, the easier it is to give up that kind of lifestyle, as you suffer consequences way more than people who don't experience hangovers as bad.

Think of it as a blessing in disguise - You will save money, gain an extra day a week and be in better shape. All win!

If you do go out clubbing or whatever. Drink club soda's with lime as an alternative. I found my social skills sharpened as i wouldn't have that poor drunken judgement and I can just be my natural self.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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