"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Welp, hang it up. I don't believe that I can binge drink alcohol anymore

Brighty

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I'm 24 and I think my days of binge drinking are over. This is kind of a recent phenomenon that's happened over the past year or so, but I just get *****y anxiety that lasts for 24 hours after I finish a night of drinking, and then feel some residual depression for about another day after that. Anyone else feel the same way at a young age about this? Is this normal?

Not that I really mind, I feel physically like **** the day after I drink anyway and because it takes so much to get me drunk I'm not going to miss the hundreds of empty calories. Hell, I'll probably lose a dozen pounds or so just from abstaining.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Brighty said:
I'm 24 and I think my days of binge drinking are over. This is kind of a recent phenomenon that's happened over the past year or so, but I just get *****y anxiety that lasts for 24 hours after I finish a night of drinking, and then feel some residual depression for about another day after that. Anyone else feel the same way at a young age about this? Is this normal?

Not that I really mind, I feel physically like **** the day after I drink anyway and because it takes so much to get me drunk I'm not going to miss the hundreds of empty calories. Hell, I'll probably lose a dozen pounds or so just from abstaining.
good so you can stop being a fatty. :rolleyes:
 

Brighty

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VikingKing said:
good so you can stop being a fatty. :rolleyes:
i'll fite u irl m8

Seriously though, losing 12 pounds might get me my six pack back. I'm kind of stoked.
 

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Those three day hangovers are the worst.

I went out last Saturday. I was fine the following day, but didn't feel fully right again until Wednesday.

Back in July 2013, I was getting sick of the hangovers & felt like I wasn't myself when I was drunk so decided to quit alcohol.

I've just started drinking again, once a month. I'm testing it to see how I go.

I think the eighteen month break from alcohol has taught me a lesson.
Maybe now I know not to drink to much & to often.
 

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Good 'ol blighty.
I know what you mean dude. I was a sucker for binge drinking in my early 20s. It was my way of trying to overcome my approach anxiety when socialising. I was low on confidence.

It catches up with you the older you get for sure. I would suffer crippling anxiety for two days after a one night session. Worse if it was a weekender. Would take me about 3 days to recover. It really is not worth it. As I see it, the worst your hangover is, the easier it is to give up that kind of lifestyle, as you suffer consequences way more than people who don't experience hangovers as bad.

Think of it as a blessing in disguise - You will save money, gain an extra day a week and be in better shape. All win!

If you do go out clubbing or whatever. Drink club soda's with lime as an alternative. I found my social skills sharpened as i wouldn't have that poor drunken judgement and I can just be my natural self.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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