“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Welp, hang it up. I don't believe that I can binge drink alcohol anymore

Brighty

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I'm 24 and I think my days of binge drinking are over. This is kind of a recent phenomenon that's happened over the past year or so, but I just get *****y anxiety that lasts for 24 hours after I finish a night of drinking, and then feel some residual depression for about another day after that. Anyone else feel the same way at a young age about this? Is this normal?

Not that I really mind, I feel physically like **** the day after I drink anyway and because it takes so much to get me drunk I'm not going to miss the hundreds of empty calories. Hell, I'll probably lose a dozen pounds or so just from abstaining.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Brighty said:
I'm 24 and I think my days of binge drinking are over. This is kind of a recent phenomenon that's happened over the past year or so, but I just get *****y anxiety that lasts for 24 hours after I finish a night of drinking, and then feel some residual depression for about another day after that. Anyone else feel the same way at a young age about this? Is this normal?

Not that I really mind, I feel physically like **** the day after I drink anyway and because it takes so much to get me drunk I'm not going to miss the hundreds of empty calories. Hell, I'll probably lose a dozen pounds or so just from abstaining.
good so you can stop being a fatty. :rolleyes:
 

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VikingKing said:
good so you can stop being a fatty. :rolleyes:
i'll fite u irl m8

Seriously though, losing 12 pounds might get me my six pack back. I'm kind of stoked.
 

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Those three day hangovers are the worst.

I went out last Saturday. I was fine the following day, but didn't feel fully right again until Wednesday.

Back in July 2013, I was getting sick of the hangovers & felt like I wasn't myself when I was drunk so decided to quit alcohol.

I've just started drinking again, once a month. I'm testing it to see how I go.

I think the eighteen month break from alcohol has taught me a lesson.
Maybe now I know not to drink to much & to often.
 

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Good 'ol blighty.
I know what you mean dude. I was a sucker for binge drinking in my early 20s. It was my way of trying to overcome my approach anxiety when socialising. I was low on confidence.

It catches up with you the older you get for sure. I would suffer crippling anxiety for two days after a one night session. Worse if it was a weekender. Would take me about 3 days to recover. It really is not worth it. As I see it, the worst your hangover is, the easier it is to give up that kind of lifestyle, as you suffer consequences way more than people who don't experience hangovers as bad.

Think of it as a blessing in disguise - You will save money, gain an extra day a week and be in better shape. All win!

If you do go out clubbing or whatever. Drink club soda's with lime as an alternative. I found my social skills sharpened as i wouldn't have that poor drunken judgement and I can just be my natural self.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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