"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Well, this site has gotten me sex ... BUT

Demonicale

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Ok so this site i would say WAS very very helpful,if not the cause of me losing my virginity and having alot of sex.

But this site seem's to only be about that, like one night stands, being a player etc...

We should have another forum for trying to get into a relationship haha ... but jokes aside ... i don't understand that i can get sex but not the companionship of an intresting,good looking girl.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sir Psycho Sexy

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I agree, adding a relationship discussion section to the forum would be nice so we would have a designated place to talk about the how to's on maintaining a healthy relationship.

There are relationship articles scattered on this site, you just have to dig a little bit for them. Many are very good and worth the time. Some of these articles can be found in the DJ bible; LTR section of it.
 

Tiguere

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If you are under 25 You shouldn't be in a relationship regardless.

Start thinking relationship pushing 30.
 

Sir Psycho Sexy

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Tiguere said:
If you are under 25 You shouldn't be in a relationship regardless.

Start thinking relationship pushing 30.
Bleh. EVERYONE who has been here for more than a couple months preaches this to any thread concerning a relationship.

Iv seen more thoughtful posts from you
 

bukowski_merit

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I think about 60% of the threads on this site are from guys in relationships asking what to do.... This site (in my opinion) isn't even Pick-up oriented; it's lifestyle and inner game oriented. You can learn a lot about what to do in relationships just by going in threads by guys who are in them who are asking questions about their girlfriends behaviors....

I encourage guys to do what they want, but i myself endorse dating multiple women in order to get experience. Of course to date multiple women - you have to have plenty of skill.

But the best advice i can give someone looking to jump into relationships is - make the relationship more important than the woman. That way - you can pluck the woman out of the relationship and insert another woman into it. (this is not a concept i created, but it's one i fully endorse)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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