"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well, this site has gotten me sex ... BUT

Demonicale

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Ok so this site i would say WAS very very helpful,if not the cause of me losing my virginity and having alot of sex.

But this site seem's to only be about that, like one night stands, being a player etc...

We should have another forum for trying to get into a relationship haha ... but jokes aside ... i don't understand that i can get sex but not the companionship of an intresting,good looking girl.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Sir Psycho Sexy

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I agree, adding a relationship discussion section to the forum would be nice so we would have a designated place to talk about the how to's on maintaining a healthy relationship.

There are relationship articles scattered on this site, you just have to dig a little bit for them. Many are very good and worth the time. Some of these articles can be found in the DJ bible; LTR section of it.
 

Tiguere

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If you are under 25 You shouldn't be in a relationship regardless.

Start thinking relationship pushing 30.
 

Sir Psycho Sexy

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Tiguere said:
If you are under 25 You shouldn't be in a relationship regardless.

Start thinking relationship pushing 30.
Bleh. EVERYONE who has been here for more than a couple months preaches this to any thread concerning a relationship.

Iv seen more thoughtful posts from you
 

bukowski_merit

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I think about 60% of the threads on this site are from guys in relationships asking what to do.... This site (in my opinion) isn't even Pick-up oriented; it's lifestyle and inner game oriented. You can learn a lot about what to do in relationships just by going in threads by guys who are in them who are asking questions about their girlfriends behaviors....

I encourage guys to do what they want, but i myself endorse dating multiple women in order to get experience. Of course to date multiple women - you have to have plenty of skill.

But the best advice i can give someone looking to jump into relationships is - make the relationship more important than the woman. That way - you can pluck the woman out of the relationship and insert another woman into it. (this is not a concept i created, but it's one i fully endorse)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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