"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Well, this site has gotten me sex ... BUT

Demonicale

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Ok so this site i would say WAS very very helpful,if not the cause of me losing my virginity and having alot of sex.

But this site seem's to only be about that, like one night stands, being a player etc...

We should have another forum for trying to get into a relationship haha ... but jokes aside ... i don't understand that i can get sex but not the companionship of an intresting,good looking girl.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Sir Psycho Sexy

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I agree, adding a relationship discussion section to the forum would be nice so we would have a designated place to talk about the how to's on maintaining a healthy relationship.

There are relationship articles scattered on this site, you just have to dig a little bit for them. Many are very good and worth the time. Some of these articles can be found in the DJ bible; LTR section of it.
 

Tiguere

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If you are under 25 You shouldn't be in a relationship regardless.

Start thinking relationship pushing 30.
 

Sir Psycho Sexy

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Tiguere said:
If you are under 25 You shouldn't be in a relationship regardless.

Start thinking relationship pushing 30.
Bleh. EVERYONE who has been here for more than a couple months preaches this to any thread concerning a relationship.

Iv seen more thoughtful posts from you
 

bukowski_merit

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I think about 60% of the threads on this site are from guys in relationships asking what to do.... This site (in my opinion) isn't even Pick-up oriented; it's lifestyle and inner game oriented. You can learn a lot about what to do in relationships just by going in threads by guys who are in them who are asking questions about their girlfriends behaviors....

I encourage guys to do what they want, but i myself endorse dating multiple women in order to get experience. Of course to date multiple women - you have to have plenty of skill.

But the best advice i can give someone looking to jump into relationships is - make the relationship more important than the woman. That way - you can pluck the woman out of the relationship and insert another woman into it. (this is not a concept i created, but it's one i fully endorse)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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